So for background Ive f 30 have been with my Daddy m 36 for almost three yrs in Sept We are poly, for a year before he met me he had a sub/kitten who he was dating also poly, when they broke up due to her ultimatums, mistreatment of him and general bitchness and lack of empathy, He and I were getting to the point of really deepening our connection ( I was everything she was not tbh) When he proposed to me last year and we subsequently married this year she found out through social media and has been harassing me on and off for the better part of two years now... idk what to do he listens when I tell him all the horrible things shes saying to me, how shes making me think hes seeing her still etc.. I trust him and I know she hurt him so so deeply that he wants nothing to do with her, know he isnt talking to her etc in my very bones. But my emotions they haven't gotten the message. Also she and I lived together for awhile and were good friends so she brings up my childhood abuse and other things I told her in confidence when she messages sometimes.

Everytime she messages me from a new account I block that one.. she must have close to 20 emails/accounts on different social media :/

Idk what kind of advice I need, maybe just supportive ancedotes or words