[context]: I wrote a script to help me prepare for a date with my girlfriend next week. We are long-distance but see one another a few times a month.

We’ve talked a lot about this but have never tried it. It fits our relationship in many ways. I adore her and ache to worship her. She loves being praised and worshiped. She also has a very demanding life and is overwhelmed with responsibilities and decision-making. She wants me to take the lead, take initiative and make decisions.

Our dynamic is not about pain, humiliation or CNC. It is love. It is letting her settle into not having to be in control and to be worshiped and pleasured. For me it is giving her that pleasure and, honestly, I enjoy teasing her and hearing her “want.”

Keep in mind this is me writing this fantasy and we’re new to this.

The scene is a hotel room where we will meet to exchange Christmas gifts….

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I will arrive first and set the lighting and temperature. Water and towels on the nightstands. Everything else out of sight.

We will hug when she arrives, chat and exchange gifts. The last gifts will be two packages together. The first is lingerie which I will ask her to put on.

I will be seated when she comes out wearing it. Of course I will admire her and tell her how adorasexy she is.

Ask her to walk to the mirror. Move her hair to one side. Stand behind her and let her open the second box. Put the choker on her neck. But I will not touch her, which will not be easy.

Ask her to sit on the bed. I Sit across from her.

“We’ve talked about trying restraints.  I know you are overwhelmed with your busy life. I know everyone relies on you.  I know everyone is always expecting things from you.  I know that so many want more and more from you.

"But you don’t have to have everything under control with me.  You can just relax.  You can let me take care of everything.  I will make the decisions about what we do.  I will take care of you.  I will adore you. 

“You don’t have to decide anything.  Just know that I love you and I will do everything I can do to make you feel loved and happy.

"I will blindfold you.  And will lightly bind you.  This is not about pain or humiliation.  It is about letting you stay in your own space.  Just to receive.  Just to be worshiped.  To be loved and let you release the burden of expectations and decisions.  You don’t have to control anything and you can just enjoy being loved. 

“We won’t do anything we haven’t done before. If you don’t want to do this that’s fine.  Or if you want to stop just say “Red.” 

"While you think about this…I’m going to paint your toenails.”

If she agrees and is excited about this I will ask her to kneel on the bed. Then I will kneel behind her and brush her hair.

Then I will Blindfold her. (I have two black silk blindfolds/straps). And bind her hands in front. One of her Christmas gifts is vanilla massage lotion. I will massage her shoulders and neck.

After asking her to lie on her side, I will rub her lower back and hips. Continuing to tell her how beautiful she is and how much I adore her.

Then I will help her sit up. Unbind her wrists and then rebind them in back. “Sit on the end of the bed,” and its time to rub her feet and calves. After a while I will cuff her ankles (I had already set the cuffs under the bed). This will give me the opportunity to caress and kiss her thighs. Of course telling her how lovely and sexy she is.

So far she hasn’t hardly touched my skin. I will take off my shirt and let her kiss my chest. Then I will kiss her neck and chest, breasts and nipples. Her breasts are not super-sensitive but I enjoy them. A lot.

Back to her spread thighs. I will need to be patient now and savor this moment. She will want to rush me. Eventually I will kiss her pussy softly through her sexy new panties.

“Everything okay, baby?” as I take off my clothes. Regardless of what she says (except “Red”) I will continue and kneel behind her, putting massage lotion in her hands. Then I will let her feel how hard I am. This is a win-win. While she does this I will enjoy playing with her hair.

After cleaning the oil off my cock, it’s time to stand in front of her, teasing her. Maybe gently caress her face and lips with my cock. What will she do? Hopefully this will be another teasing moment.

Time for whispers. Lots of praise. Reminding her how beautiful and sexy she is. “Soon I will be inside you. Moving just the way you like. Filling you. You are so fucking beautiful.” All of this will be done slowly of course. Some complimentary neck kisses thrown in for good measure.

Back to kneeling in front of her. Slowly kissing toward her pussy. Lots of praise about how sexy and yummy she is. Once I untie and remove her panties I will spend a lot of time going down on her. I hope to make her cum. A little mini wand will probably happen here. She will most likely cum at least once, hopefully more.

I may wait on the toy until I lay her on her side. I like the idea of using the toy on her while she sucks me. I don’t want too much of this so I won’t get too aroused.

Time to rebind her in front, lie her on her back and put her hands over her head, strapped to the headboard. I will camp between her legs, kissing, teasing, caressing. She is PIV-centric so I expect a lot of build-up. The more the better.

I like the idea of moving deliberately to penetration. A fun part of this is rubbing my cock against her pussy. Slowly. Intermittently. Lots of talking because, as you can tell, I like words. And I really like her words and sounds.

I will remove the blindfold right before penetration because the look on her face…. And then unbind her when we start fucking. Or maybe untie her when we’re done? But I really enjoy her arms and legs wrapped around me.

And when we’re done? Hold her. Praise her. Towels for us. Water. Probably snoozing.

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Like I said, I’m new to this. But having a script is helpful to me. Will it work? Am I on the right track here? Is my approach feasible? Thank you for any friendly comments and feedback.