Our dynamic has evolved over time. We have ended up with a set of rules that keep our household running smoothly.

1- I must wear my ownership items at all times when leaving the house. They remind others, as well as myself, that I belong to Sir.

2- I must be clean shaven, everywhere, at all times.

3- I must treat Him with kindness and respect at all times.

4- I must obey Him at all times.

5- I must be accessible to Him at all times. That means agreeing to any sexual demand at any time without hesitation. He owns by body and my pleasure. I am not allowed to orgasm without permission.

6- If we have a planned scene, I must be in the room He selected, at the time He selected, and wearing lingerie.

7- I will submit to a maintenance session each Friday night and another mini-maintenance session each Sunday night. Rescheduling is at His discretion. These typically include maintenance spankings, additional discipline, training He may require of me, and pleasuring Him.

8- In addition to Fri & Sun: I must offer AT LEAST once a week. This means presenting on my knees and asking if I may suck His cock. Once a week is the bare minimum. More than once per week is expected.

9- Once per month, I must give Him a Night of Service. This means an entire evening of constant service to Him. I am required to wear lingerie for the evening and provide service in any way requested. Typically it means I will cook for Him and clean the kitchen while he watches sports. He will make demands throughout the evening (massaging Him, performing oral, serving him food, etc.)

10- Curfew: If I am leaving the house for something other than work, I will have a curfew. It is my responsibility to request a curfew from Him. (Something like: “Sir, I’m meeting a friend for dinner at 6:00 as we discussed last week. May I have an 8:30 curfew?”). He may agree to that or select a different time. I have to be home by the time He gives. No exceptions.

11- I must keep my car reasonably clean. (‘Reasonable’ is at His discretion).

12- I must keep our home reasonable clean as well. (‘Reasonable’ is at His discretion).

Let me know if you have questions or want to hear more about our rules, dynamic, or the consequences imposed!