Though I’m fairly new to BDSM/kink and all that - it’s been about a year that I started to embrace that I have a submissive side to me. It was within this past year that I realised the kink I enjoy quite a bit (having a “Daddy”) is called DDlg. I often understood this to mean only an in bedroom name calling experience - or at most a role play of sorts. (As an aside - I just recently joined Fetlife - come say hi if you're there)

What I didn’t realise is the comfort and safety it brings to meet a real Daddy. A Man who is nurturing, protective, affectionate, caring, extremely supportive and makes me feel sexy as fuck. Someone who is patient with me, holds my hands and provides me with the comforts of safety as I embark on discovering new kinks and fetishes.

Escaping into submission has become an absolute delight and often the best parts of my day. I no longer have to be “on” 24/7. I can be open, honest, vulnerable and truly receive joy out of acts of service for Him.

The pleasure of my submission is heightened when we’re cuddling on the couch, and He says a simple “come here”, I move my mouth closer to His and feel His tongue enter my mouth. His tongue is much like a pacifier to me, I suck and soothe myself on it. I could suck on His tongue for hours, mastering the art of breathing while He has His whole tongue in my mouth. I love feeling every part of His tongue. Often sucking on it slowly like a pacifier and other times biting on it and sucking it hard like it is His cock. I know Daddy absolutely loves when I suck on His tongue. Often He will reward me by licking my lips, and licking me all around my mouth. But, sometimes it’s absolutely frustrating when He pulls back and tells me that’s enough. I’m usually quite annoyed, but I do know how to behave like a good little girl - well, most of the time.

But my favourite part, after I’ve been sucking on His tongue, Him exploring the inside of mouth, and getting my face all wet - is how He always wipes my mouth clean with His thumb. And, if I’m lucky, I’ll then get to suck on His thumb a bit too.