Hey folks, I recently ended things with my boyfriend who i had a light D/s and light ddlg dynamic with. I’m really struggling to seperate from him and keep good boundaries and think it’s partly because he was fulfilling something I’d been missing in my life for a while. So I’m hoping that by finding social ways to fill that gap will help me detach from the dynamic. I’m not particularly interested in finding play partner online as BDSM and D/s dynamics feel like such an over saturated fad right now and often men seem to exaggerate their experience and knowledge, I’ve never been to a play party before but feel like a community space might be a better place to suss out peoples genuine interest and experience. I’ve been into d/s dynamics for over a decade and don’t want to coach or guide someone and don’t want to play with people who don’t understand safety and risk. Any tips on good play parties or social opportunities would be greatly appreciated 🙏