Looking for a Dom, or Daddy Dom (though not in to ddlg/the age aspect).

About me - single, 36yo female,174cm (I think??). I enjoy looking after my Dom, from kink to doing little vanilla-ly things (that's definitely a word) to make his life easier. Vanilla wise, I'm not a party/rave/go out drinking all night type of person. Would pick a relaxed, no pressure night out/in over fancy dresses and schmoozing. I know what I want, but am open to new experiences with the right person. I'm falling more in to who I am every week. Enjoy helping others, though sometimes you the detriment of myself. Sometimes have a sarcastic sense of humour. Don't really drink.

Looking for - an in person (not online), monogamous dynamic. Intimacy. A connection. Being cared for. Someone that's not afraid to tackle issues together and knows that things aren't perfect 100% of the time. Someone that is able to shut me up, or stop me, with just a look! Someone that is happy to take control, if needed, outside the bedroom too. Things like having doors opened for me makes me feel cared for, special. Little things like that.

About you - single, over 34, taller than me, preferably experienced, kind, affectionate, strong (both physically and mentally), consistent, patient. Beards and dad bods very welcome!

Discussions, questions, meeting somewhere safe etc - yes please!

Aftercare, safewords, limits and boundaries - double yes please!

Kinks - flogging, restraints, wax, watersports, knife play, CNC, spanking, shibari, masochist to a degree, humiliation/degradation, slight exhibitionist. All these aren't needed, with the right person preferences may change too.

Me being submissive doesn't mean I can be treated like shit or taken advantage of. I won't put up with tasks, rules, tests to "prove my worth" while we're getting to know each other.

Hard limits - scat, vomit, anything illegal i.e. animals.

Ideally looking for a relationship as well as the dynamic.

I'm south of Sydney. If you feel like we should talk, feel free to message and tell me about yourself. I don't do kik or snapchat.