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The only thing that changed over three months is my age but here is another attempt at finding something special. I'm Prof. A 31 year old Dominant looking for a forever partner. I'm an academic, well educated, well spoken, kind and an experienced Daddy-Dom. I'm from the south of India and open to relocate for the right person.
The things I enjoy are everything a homebody does. Music from blues to jazz to some desi tadka to rock, I love it all. I love reading, I primarily stick to fiction though and self-help is not my jam. I love to write and enjoy writing poetry and some erotica here and there. I love to cook and while I don't stick to recipe books, I do cook up a storm. I love animals of all kinds, have had dogs and cats as pets but petless since a few months now. I enjoy learning, watching quizzes, podcasts, lectures and random trivia, about anything scientific, historic or even the absurd!
I am someone who loves attention. Who loves time and conversations. I want to know what makes you tick, what you're body craves, what your soul desires. I am very passionate and seek the same.
My definition of Dominance or being a caregiver is a mix of nurturing, growing, controlling, sadistic, romantic, soft and hard, based on the kink, the scene, the setting and the headspace. I enjoy cuddling and spoiling you as much as I enjoy reducing you down to an object whose sole existence is my pleasure.
I have a plethora of kinks, some mainstream, some out there, some people can associate with me and some that leave people surprised and wondering. I enjoy the mental side of d/s and I seek to earn someone's respect, trust and submission from a comfort space where they know I will be someone who they can be vulnerable and feel safe with. Even when you're naked, shivering and sleeping on the cold hard floor, I will assure you that your heart will be warm and your face will have a satisfied smile from knowing that you made me happy. I'm an expressive and emotional man and the act of submission in itself is something I cherish.
That being said, here comes a classic menu card announcement of all the kinks I'm interested in, I'm fascinated by and I enjoy.
Ageplay- daddy dom, little space, baby talk, colouring books, binkies, the whole Monte but for diapers
Petplay- kittens, puppies, ponies, piggies and hucows all welcome
Temperature play- wax, ice, chemicals (mild) Sensory plays- sensory overload, sensory deprivation, either or maybe both!
Pain- mild impact play, not a heavy player when it comes to play but I'm partial to nipple torture, clit torture, pumps and all! No needles, knives or blood please.
Orgasm control- edging, denial, ruined orgasms, handsfree, anal only, anything and everything to do with it.
H&D- objectification, servitude, misogyny, bodywriting, 50's lifestyle, patriarchy, trash, dehumanization, raceplay, faithplay all welcome
Restraints- Bondage, predicament bondage, stress positions welcome, avid about shibari, fairly inexperienced in it though.
TPE- outfits, schedules, food, drink, decisions, I love that kind of control.
Cnc, dubcon, blackmail, exposure Watersports- Restricted to bladder control more than anything, fascinated but unsure about the rest.
Praise, pillow princess- while praise is something I adore and I am willing to make a session all about you, pillow princesses in real life only. Way too impersonal for online plays.
Tasks, punishments- love setting tasks, service, day to day and such. Funishments and punishments too.
Exhibitionism- While not looking for anything really public and risking exposure, love plays that involve risks of getting caught, playing against windows, on balconies, inside cars, you get the idea
Feet-surprisingly into shoe licking and foot worship (receiving only) but not footjobs
Monogamy, loyalty and ownership are things I treasure. While I understand someone being poly, it isn't for me.
Physical appearance is not important to me, but I'd want my partner to be attracted to me and I to them, this can wait but doesn't have to if you put this somewhere at the top of your list. Happy to share a picture if you share yours!
I'm not in any of the metropolises just yet, I will be moving soon though. I haven't decided where yet and this is something I'm leaving open for now. If you're the right person and a move is practical, I'd love to move to you.
Thanks for getting this far, if you're interested, please reach out. Let's talk!
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