In a time when fleeting romance floats in the air, I seek something more! I'm Prof, I'm a Dominant from Mangalore, Karnataka and I am looking for something that potentially lasts a lifetime!

Long post, TL DR at the bottom

A few things that I am into: 1. Music is something that I will geek over for hours on end. If I like you, high chances we will make a playlist together and spend nights delving into classic rock, hip hop, jazz, blues, soul, coke studio, Darbar festival, Indian classical, Western classical, old Indian jams, background scores or whatever else that catches our fancy! 2. Food, its history, its heritage, its evolution, the recipes, I love to cook, I love to eat, I love to feed, I enjoy a drink! 3. Animals, all shapes and sizes, the scaly ones, the furry ones and the crawly ones too. 4. Science, be it astronomy, be it chemistry, be it anatomy, it all opens the world up to me! 5. The human brain, through documentaries, psychology lectures or deep discussions. 6. Board games, couch multiplayers, card games and whatever tickles your fancy. 7. Writing, prose, poetry, fantasy, haikus and everything involving putting words on paper. 8. Discussions, be it finance, politics, religion, faith, aliens and anything in between, respectful debates are so attractive! 9. The most obvious one, the world of kink, a decade being a dominant, this is something I actively practice, with understanding more than fantastical ideas!

What I am looking for 1. Someone who can give time, while having education/career is important, having the right balance is too. An hour or two a day shouldn't hurt, right? 2. Effort, taking the effort to build something real, something solid. 3. Communication, being honest, being upfront, being candid is always appreciated. There might be things that we don't like about each other, vocalising is essential! 4. Someone close to me in age, the age range I seek is 23-34, but I'm open to exceptions if exceptional! 5. Someone who seeks something serious, and I can't stress this enough, I'm not here for a hookup, I'm not here for a threesome (yes I've been asked these things) and I'm definitely not looking to pay for anything.

Some more things about me: I'm a full time PhD research scholar in the finishing stages of my PhD. My career is at a pivotal point and in a few months, I'll be relocating somewhere. This could be where you are if we click and it's worth pursuing.

My love language is food and physical touch, a believer of cuddles, words and cooking up a storm.

I'm a Dominant, with a plethora of kinks, dynamics that have lasted years and a deep understanding of kink. It's more of a headspace and mental state than the physical aspects of things and as in all good things, definitely takes time to establish.

I'm into praise and degradation, petplay, ageplay, mild impact play, orgasm control, lifestyle control (outfit, food, sleeping habits, scheduling and stuff like that, obviously with discussion and consent and definitely not right away), chemical play, stress positions, restraints, risk of exposure, exhibitionism, breathplay, wax, ice, nipple torture, breeding and lactation, faithplay amongst others. Limits would be footjobs/cumming on feet, scat and fluids, blood, heavy impact play, needles, bodily harm, disproportionate bodies (bigger isn't always better, trust me), anything illegal, anything involving minors or animals.

I'm a homebody, I enjoy going out to quiet places, enjoy being in nature but I'm equally comfortable at home. Parties and clubs are fun too, but only every once in a while.

I watch movies, series, anime and documentaries, in all languages and forms. Not a huge fan of "wide consumer" content and would watch a good movie over a popular one.

I know I've said a lot, I know there is a lot left to be said, if I've piqued your curiosity, reach out! And yeah, "hay" is for horses, please bring something more to the table! Have a good day and good luck! Thanks for reaching the bottom of the post!

TL DR: Looking for something serious, something kinky and wholesome, something that can lead to a future together. Willing to relocate, willing to start off online. Be between 23-34