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Hi there! Did you hydrate enough today? I took time to polish the post, so I hope you enjoy it :)
- About Me
I'm 24 years old, 183cm, physically fit, broad, deep voice, black hair, eyes with a shade of brown that you can only notice if you're lost in them up close. I'm more than happy to share pictures if you reply.
I'm relatively extroverted, and can hold a good conversation. Even if we end up having little in common, I'm always open to learning more about your interests and engaging with them. I am open minded and flexible, and prioritize healthy communication above all. I'm a physically active nerd and engineering student, I enjoy swimming, volleyball, good books, videogames, writing (or trying to lol), and music, especially rock. I love sharing things I enjoy, like listening to music together, watching movies, or even just spending time together while we each do our own thing.
IRL I'm the leadership type, with other people I naturally take charge of situations, lead projects, distribute tasks, listen and take accountability for my leadership, but I'm a RAVING closeted submissive.
- The Dynamic
Being the submissive in a relationship is all about seeing the glee and joy in your partner as a direct result of your own actions, transcending the purely sexual, doing things that may or may not be insignificant simply because it would make your Dom happy, or even not something as grandiose as "happiness", it could just be from amusement or entertainment, to something as big as genuine assistance in their daily lives, incorporating their day into your own, doing whatever you can to increase their quality of life (if you're still reading, include your favourite food in your message). Doing that requires a deep connection, a proper understanding, a respect of limits and expectations. As your sub, I want to improve your quality of life, I want you to be the shining beacon that I see as something greater than myself.
I am a submissive who is attracted to headstrong assertive women, my goal is to satisfy your desires and needs, I can do that with service-play, rules I need to follow, tasks that need to be fulfilled, quotas that need to be met, or any other way you can think of. Ideally we would have a 24/7 dynamic, but I'm flexible, we can work our way up to it, and of course I understand if life gets in the way.
I'm here to give *myself* over to *you* in as much of a capacity as I can.
I'd like my Dom to give me a role to embody, to tell me what my place is in her life, I'd like to know that my actions do have an actual impact, and if they don't we can workshop until they do, I'd like someone I can be comfortable enough around to be myself completely, to shed all the filters and veils I keep up for my daily life.
My submissiveness does not contradict the aforementioned assertiveness I have, but plays alongside it. I take charge in situations where taking charge is necessary, and I want to meet someone who makes me feel like I can step down and take orders instead. To imagine it more simply, I am number 1 as far as everyone else is concerned, and you're here to change that.
- Closing
If anything you read set your mind aflutter, do shoot me a message, I'd love to see where it takes us!
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