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I'm a 28-year- a Dominant who is safe, and responsible. I can hold my end of a conversation (and not just about sex and kink). I also know my way around the kitchen and enjoy good food.
I don't intend to change my situation or yours, but perhaps you're in a complementary circumstance? Trying to hold it together and yet obsessed by this deeper and more primal urge? Can we find a safe space to satisfy each other?
For me, this is mainly about control and submission. What thrills me is the idea of a woman submitting to my control and surrendering the responsibility for her pleasure and mine. I love the idea of being with a capable woman at the same time, take her and enjoy her in a way that is not bound by conventional notions of affection or tenderness, but by something more primal and instinctive and raw.
Wanting to create the right conditions to do the things that she has always wanted to do all along! I don't believe submission means a woman is weak or foolish or silly. It takes actual courage to place yourself under another's control, and so I am looking for a woman who can be confident in her submission.
I'm 5'8", 140 lbs., reasonably fit. I have experience both in affairs and in D/s relationships. I am not coming to this naively. I am looking for someone in a similar situation. Prefer someone who knows how to play it safe and keep her cool.
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