• If you're going to write, please write something substantial. Put some thought and feeling into it. If I receive a message which consists solely of "Hi", "Hey", etc, or a low energy message then I reserve the right to ghost you and put a curse on you.

What I'm looking for:

My kind of woman is Elizabeth Bennet, Cathy Earnshaw and Wednesday Addams all rolled into one.

Essentially, a woman who is strong and opinionated, who knows her own mind, and doesn't give a rat's tail for the judgements of others. But also a woman who is a natural submissive behind their hard shell of an exterior.

She has grace, class, sophistication with a wild streak.

Being the Dominant of a woman ,who is the personification of class and elegance, is a really hot fantasy.

I've met a sub who is a CEO, who's worked in NASA, so I would be interested in collaring a sub who has a premium career. The idea is actually really hot.

I'll start with the "Darcy" part of my psyche:

I'm not like the vast majority of Dominants out there who will collar the first submissive who comes along. I have high standards and I'll only collar a submissive if those standards are met.

I'm not a social media person. Yes, I'm on here, but I'm only really here to post this. Other than Reddit, I have zero social media presence.

My communication method of choice is emails. With emails you're able to convey mass amounts of information and details, without interruption, therefore, making the "getting to know you" process relatively quick.

If you want a Man who has manners, who is intelligent, monogamous, funny, classy, sophisticated and nurturing, feel free to initiate contact.

I'm deep, introspective, pensive and morose. I feel more at ease and happiest when I'm alone. I barely tolerate people.

I would rather be by myself than be at a party or a gathering. If you want a people person and an extrovert and a social butterfly, that isn't me, either.

Characteristics I'm seeking: sardonic, pensive, Intelligent, well read, classy, kinky, sophisticated, open minded, monogamous and with a certain Goth vibe. I have always had a thing for Goth types. Back in the day it was Morticia and Elvira, I suppose you can add Wednesday to the mix now that she's all growed up.

ABOUT ME: (Vanilla)

I'm a writer, and soon-to-be author (hopefully). One of my passions is cooking. I briefly trained as a Chef, which means that I'm a whizz in the kitchen! Wouldn't say that I'm a fully-fledged Chef, but I know enough to get by and not starve to death or get food poisoning... and die.

I'm a logophile. (No. It doesn't mean that I like logos. It means that I have an intense and inherit love of words. They even have the ability to get me horny) If you contact me, you have to have an equal passion for the written (or spoken) word.

Oh. I also have a really sharp sense of humour. So, if you're sensitive or thin skinned, approach with caution.

I don't suffer fools gladly.

I'm a deep thinker. I'm spiritual (NOT religious) and believe in the power of Chi. I believe in Ghosts, other worlds, multiverses and dimensions. I'm into meditation and self improvement and self analysis. I'm a free-thinker and tend to think independently from the masses. I naturally deviate from convention.

I'm not a shrinking violet when it comes to expressing my opinion. My opinion is often unpopular, but I would rather be hated for being myself than be loved for being someone who I am not.

I don't conform. I'm unapologetically weird and different. I love the way that I am. And I love the person I am.

I'm certainly not perfect, but I wouldn't want to be. I'm simply trying to grow and improve. The only person I'm competing with is yesterday's me.

I'm not a people person. I can't stress that enough. I tend to connect better with "weird" people and people who deviate from "normality". I'm misanthropic and I tend to be on an entirely different page than the general populace. For that, I am eternally thankful.

I don't really care about distance. I mean, let's be honest, the chance of meeting a compatible soul is improbable as it is, if you restrict it by means of geography and location, the "improbable" becomes the "impossible". Besides, it's 2023, not 1723. Distances can be bridged with the aid of heavy machinery with wings.

So yes, I'm open to a long distance relationship, to begin with.

It takes a while to properly forge a strong relationship: It requires respect, trust, honesty, compatibility and communication. None of those things come easily or without dedication, conviction and time.

I'm a sapiosexual as well as a demisexual. I find intelligence very, very hot! I require a mental and an emotional and a spiritual bond before I can even think of developing a dynamic.

I'm an introvert. I'm private and I don't like being the centre of attention. In fact, I like to keep as far back from people and the spotlight as possible. My preference is to live in the shadows. My main aim in life is to become a Vampire... true story. Still working on it.

Movies: Fright Night 1 & 2,  The Lost Boys, Barefoot in the park, Breakfast at Tiffany's, My Fair Lady, Casablanca, Jerry Maguire, Serendipity, Say Anything, Almost Famous, Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's day off, Weird Science, Elvira: Mistress of the dark, Elvira: Haunted Hills, Dirty Dancing, The Big Sick, Star Wars (The original trilogy), Firefly, Shadow of the Vampire, Interview with the Vampire, Dracula (1931).

Television: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, It's Always sunny in Philadelphia, Wednesday, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Sex and the City, Family Guy, The Simpsons, Scrubs.

Author/Writer: Jane Austen, Edgar Allen Poe, Bram Stoker, The Bronte Sisters, Emily Dickinson.

Music: The Smiths, The Cure, AC/DC

Honestly, I'm not a big music fan. I prefer classical music and score as they have the capacity to stir my emotions.

...and now the "Master" half of what makes me, me:

ABOUT ME: (Kink)

My form of Dominance is one of psychology.

It's my belief that before you can even hope to control the body, first you have to be able to control the mind.

I want to know how you think, I want to know how your mind works, what you love, what you like, what you hate and what you dislike. I want to know about your formative years, your upbringing, your parents, your family, etc.

Vanilla comes before kink.

As far as kink goes, I want to know about your experience as well as your dream dynamic. I want to know what turns you on, what your limits are and how willing you are to expand your horizons, etc.

A good relationship is all about growth. It's all about learning and maturing and both discovering new kinks, but also cultivating the kinks you already have.

This dynamic will be a living, breathing organism. It'll grow and develop and mature. It will be 24/7. It'll be all consuming and it will be a life choice.

At work you will be my submissive. At the supermarket and at the mall and out in public, you will be owned by me. Your every breath will contain a whisper that I own you. Every thought will contain a note that I control you.

It will be all encompassing.

You will be swimming in a fog of knowledge that your every thought, every feeling and every moment of your life is under my lock and key.

I want a relationship based on TPE. I'm not into "keeping it in the bedroom/behind closeddoors", as that sounds too much like roleplay.

You will learn from me, you will be taught, I will sculpt and mould and nurture you and train you to be the greatest version of yourself that you can be.

I'll listen. I'll be your teacher, your mentor, your confident, your protector as well as your best friend.

I cannot stress that enough, for a D/s dynamic to work, it has to be built on friendship. There must be trust and respect and communication and compatibility. Every cylinder must be firing

We will be a team. We will listen, talk, laugh and learn from the other. Our bond will be stronger than any metal or element known to Man.

This isn't an easy connection to develop. It takes honesty, trust, communication and absolute dedication and faith. Come into this half-hearted, it will not work.

It also takes time. How much time? It will take as long as it takes. The vanilla connection must be forged, otherwise it's akin to building a house on quicksand.

My kinks: Watersports, fiscal Domination, Goth, taboo, rough skull-fucking, anal, CNC, rape play, bimbofication, food control, body modification, behaviour modification, body transformation, body modification, body writing, deepthroat, TPE, puke, chains, leather, outfits, DP (with dildos, etc), toys, edging, Vampirism (Hematolagnia), tasks, raceplay, DD/lg

I'm very open to taboo kinks, as well as extreme kinks. The chance of me being against a kink will be extremely remote so there's no need to be shy.

I'm very open minded and respectful.

Watersports is my number one kink, so, if you're genuinely turned on by watersports (Or even if you're curious) we could very well be a match.

Hard limits: Poly and scat.

Everything else is fair game and negotiable.

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