I apologize for the length of the post, I hope you like to read.

A bit about myself: I have years of experience as a dom, in a multitude of different and unique dynamics including online and IRL. I am a successful individual in the healthcare field, I have two degrees one of which is an advanced medical degree. My job can be time consuming but I’m more than happy to create time for the right person. I’m looking for something online with potential to move to IRL, I plan to move every few years due to my career and am currently moving now. I consider myself just as down to earth and compassionate as I am strict and stern. I enjoy conversations that are thought provoking, philosophical, ethical and or controversial conversations and are encouraged. I ask that if you’re interested in having those conversations you be mature enough to have them without letting emotions take control of the conversation. I am 6’ with an average build with strong broad shoulders. I workout regularly I am just a larger man stature wise and I am bearded with tattoos. I enjoy reading, I consider myself a student for life and am always looking to learn more in any field. I enjoy surfing when I’m able to live by the coast and because of the nature of my job I very much enjoy any personal downtime. My satisfaction from a D/s dynamic comes from the submission itself, whatever form that takes, I want it to stem from a place of trust and comfortability.

What I’m looking for: A sub, brat, slave, little or whatever you’d like to call yourself, to get to know on a personal and kinky level. I do not care how much experience you do or do not have, I love teaching and guiding as much as I enjoy a well trained sub. Someone who is looking for tasks, routines and rules. I am open to TPE but is not necessary. I understand there are lives outside of kink and the rules and tasks would reflect what’s appropriate for the demand you have in your personal life so whether they stay inside the bedroom or extend outside will be up to you and what you’re comfortable with. I am more than happy to create them myself but I also aim to create a pleasant and enjoyable dynamic for you as well, one that you are happy and eager to serve in, I can be as sweet, warm and caring or sadistic and cruel as you’d like. I have no preference in education or whatever you do for a job as long as you are easy and fun to talk to. I’m looking for a dynamic or woman to talk to or have a connection with that can provide me some relaxation in an otherwise busy and stressful routine.

Please be forthright with what you’re looking for, if that’s just a conversation I still encourage you to message me as I love meeting and talking to people in this community. If you are open or looking for a dynamic I’d love to hear what you expect out of your dom.

I am very open with my kinks and willing to try almost anything once. I’d consider my kinks “standard”, bondage, orgasm control, impact play, worshiping to name a few. Limits include anything illegal, water sports, permanent bodily harm and blackmail. With that being said I am more than happy to stay within the limits you are comfortable with and endulging your kinks. My philosophy with regards to a D/s dynamic is that the sub is the one in charge as they set the limits in which the dom may play in. I do obviously enjoy exploring and pushing limits when they’ve been discussed and agreed upon prior.

Please be aware that in a dynamic I do expect you to share pics of yourself or tasks and rules being completed, please let me know if this is something you are not comfortable with.

I do not have an expectation that if you reach out, we we’ll automatically or be forced to form a dynamic so If any of what I have said interests you or you’d like to have a friendly conversation and meet someone new with some shared interests please don’t hesitate to reach out! I look forward to hearing from you!