Hello

I'm open to a lot of different relationship templates, if you are looking for something quite light that's ok and I'm open to things developing into a deeper, poly, relationship. I personally think it's quite hard to state upfront what a relationship should become, so yeah if you want something serious probably a good way to get there is just to talk it through, get to know each other, let it breathe and see what happens.

I do want to meet IRL when it feels right for both of us and I'm afraid I'm not interested in anything purely online or long distance.

I really like warm heartedness and try to be a tender, caring, person. I try to be emotionally available and sensitive. I want to be nurturing and nourishing to you, to be a positive influence in your life, and to help you feel more confident and happy.

I also really believe that focusing on communication, safety, consent and boundaries is a critical part of developing a good dynamic. I think feeling safe together allows us both to relax, and in that relaxation it's possible for the intense arousal we're looking for to come through. The safety and structure opens the door to profound play.

And yeah I want to make you scream, to make your toes curl, to make you whimper, moan, cry, beg, whisper when you can no longer speak and look at me with pleading eyes when you can no longer whisper. I want to get inside your head, ravage you, feast on you, abuse you, torment, tease and hurt you. I want to give you play so amazing and intense that it ruins all other doms for you.

Or at least I'll try haha. In terms of kinks I'm Sadistic, I love control and ultimately I want us to create a shared fantasy we both love and then make it real so we're both hyped and loving it and thrilled to have the chance to play together. And then after that the question is how deeply do we dare open to each other, and how far into the magnificent depths of BDSM do we dare to descend?

If you're shy or nervous about saying hi I'd encourage you that it's ok. If you just want to chat for a bit you can break off any time, that's fine. And if you're not sure what you want and have some confusion around all this stuff that's totally ok too. I want you to feel secure that you can be yourself and when your mind changes all you need to do is say and we'll change direction together.

Let's do something amazing, and let's do it properly, carefully, beautifully.