Hi there, my name's Joe. I'm a 31 year old graduate from Nottingham, England. I'm looking to catch the attention of a lady who would be proud to own me. I'm hoping to find someone local and close to my age (around 25-35 years old) who I can develop a bond and connection with. I am open to online dynamics but with the long-term goal of being in-person. I'm solely looking for an exclusive and monogamous dynamic. I'm looking to find someone that accepts me for who I am and values and appreciates both the non-sexual and kink sides of me. I do have a small amount of experience, both online and in-person but am very low mileage. I'd love to be your sub, but it'd be even better if we could be friends too!

About me

I'm 6'3 (192 cm) and 13.5 stone (85KG/189 pounds). I'm white, have dark brown hair, brown eyes and wear glasses - here's a body photo of me . I'm comfortable sharing both SFW and NSFW body photos and videos. Face photos can be exchanged down the line once we get to know each other better.

I am an introvert and I much prefer a cosy night in. Although I do enjoy going out for a nice meal, into nature, or doing a fun activity too! I'd say I'm a bit of a geek but I do also enjoy being active and I'm a big ice hockey fan. I've never played and only skated once - I fell over a lot! - but I do love to watch gamesand highlights. I've also recently started learning Italian. Cooking and baking are also things I enjoy doing and I'd love to do both of these for you.

One of my biggest interests is video games. I love all genres and have a collection of consoles and a PC. If you're also a gamer I would love to play Mario Kart or Helldivers 2 together. I also love listening to music and try to keep an open mind, but my favourite genres are rock, punk, electronic and metal. My current favourite bands are; Electric Callboy, Deftones and Interpol. I also enjoy watching films & TV, I especially enjoy fantasy and sci-fi. However, I also like nature and I'm a big animal lover. I have a pet cat and dog and they're both amazing creatures. One day I'd like to run an animal sanctuary or rescue centre. I like to keep active and healthy and have recently started following a workout schedule. Also, I enjoy reading and am currently working through The Lord of the Rings. I'm educated and graduated with first class Bachelor's degree in Games Production.

Playful side

Time for the fun and sexual side of me and what I'm hoping to find. I'm looking to find someone that will be excited and proud to own me as theirs and no one else's. I'm looking to find someone that I can give up control to, knowing that I can trust them to play and toy with me within my limits and boundaries.

Non-sexual

* Massages, hugs and cuddles.

* Collars and leashes.

* Acts of service. I love performing acts that make you feel special. I'd be happy to cook and clean for you, as well as bring you drinks and snacks on command or just from my own initiative. You could even dress me in a maid outfit so I really fit the part.

* Spontaneous submission.

Bedroom and sexual

* Body worship, facesitting, oral (both giving and receiving).

* Rewards, punishments and tasks.

* Reverse pegging. Having me wear a strap-on.

* Pegging and anal. This is something I'm slowly warming up to the idea of trying again.

Kink

* Bondage, including gags, restraints and sensory deprivation

* Pet play. This is another of my favourites and something I really enjoy.

* Humiliation and degradation. I love being called names and being mocked or toyed with within reason.

* Orgasm control, chastity, tease and denial. edging and ruined orgasms.

* Impact play. I enjoy spanking and riding crops

* Wearing panties, a skirt and stockings or knee high socks is something I'm curious about too.

Hard limits

* Findom

* Cuckolding. Especially with another male is a hard no.

* Anything forced bi related

* Anything water sports, scat, toilet stuff, or blood

* Permanent damage or anything more than light pain

* MDlb or age play

* Ballbusting, CBT and sounding

If you're interested please feel free to send me a message here and tell me your favourite animal so I know you read this far!