Hi! Im a nonbinary (afab) pet looking for a soft sadist.
Wanna say right off the bat that i want to take things slow at first, get to know each other and build trust. Be friends as well as play partners.
My ideal dom would be a soft and gentle sadist. I know that probably sounds like a contradiction to a lot of you. I need someone who will satisfy my masochist side, my need to be manhandled, spanked and made to cry, but in a soft reassuring manner. No degradation or humiliation, pain as reward rather than punishment, and most importantly soft words, praise, and encouragement. My brand of kink is very soft and affectionate. I liked to be cared for by my dom as opposed to serving/being used. You could call me a bit of a pillow prince haha.
I also like to separate kink from my daily life for the most part. While i am a submissive, i am also very independent. TPE or 24/7 dynamics are not my cup of tea.
Outside of kink I like to game, listen to and make music, horror of all kind, alternative fashion, dnd, and other nerdy stuff.
I have a health condition that limits how much i can go out, so a partially online dynamic would be preferred, but i would like to meet if we vibe well too.
Some boundaries and preferences:*
Yes: praise, spanking, bruises/marks/scratching, dacryphilia, overstim, somno, masks (points if you own a ghostface mask).
No: degradation, humiliation, choking, face slapping (or any degrading sort of pain), scat, raceplay.
Maybe(tread carefully): knife play, fauxcest, watersports, cnc.
*not a full list, just stuff I thought was good to mention. I am open to experiment with new kinks as well.
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