We should become, what were meant to be.
I am Dom first and foremost. I have been in a number of intense BDSM based dynamics in the past and as I grow older, I realise that this part is too important in my life for me to miss out on it. I have a strong view that many of us are just wired that way and that we need to find a good safe way to live that side. My life is good and stable. I have a respectable career and I am in a stable relationship that has become rather vanilla over the years. Against this settled background, there is a clear sense of something missing for me. I want BDSM to be part of my life.
I am trustworthy, reliable and kind. I am also quite experienced, I understand people, I am smart and educated and will offer thoughts and conversation. I have a high sex drive and plenty of the perverse sexual energy and lust that makes this kind of setup worth living for.
I am looking for a woman who ideally is in similar circumstances. Kindness, trustworthiness, reliability and discretion are as important as the burning desire to submit. I would like to find someone who like me yearns for a long deep kinky connection, something that we can live in whatever form we decide feels right. The personal connection is important to me, intimacy makes BDSM so much more fulfilling.
I have many kinky interests, which I am happy to discuss in detail, including control, servitude, humiliation, restraints, impact and mind-play.
You age, experience level or current life situation are not important for me. If you are interested, tell me about yourself, your vanilla self and your kinky self.
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