Hey there, I’m a 21 year old guy living near London. I’m looking for a long term, monogamous, IRL relationship with a switch or dominant woman where we can explore femdom.

As a heads up, I’m a long time lurker on reddit, and feel like I’m at a solid point in my life to start engaging and looking for someone, hence the new account.

A little about me: - I’m 21 - Live near London / the south east - I’m 6”1 - 95kg and well built

For my job, I work in financial services in London and I greatly enjoy it. What I do can sound a little boring when I explain it to others, but it’s something that I’m passionate in and see myself doing for the foreseeable future. Outside of work, I enjoy keeping fit and active by going to the gym, going on walks and I’d like to get into running this year. I like listening to music and would like to see more things live this year. I have an interest in cars, and I know this can be taken in a bad way, but I’m not a chavvy boy racer haha. I also like having a chill evening in, playing games, or watching films. And on the contrast I do enjoy an evening down the pub and the occasional big night out!

What I have to give:

I’m 21 years old and haven’t been in a relationship. I know some people may view this as a red flag, but I am a kind, loyal, caring person and I like to think I have a lot of love to give. I just haven’t found the right person, and I don’t engage in one night stands, nor am I looking for a casual arrangement. I want to build a genuine connection with someone and hope to grow and become inseparable with each other. I have a stable job / career albeit I am fairly young. Whilst I don’t live in London currently, I’m looking to move there later this year. Travel isn’t an issue for me either. Where I’m at currently in life, I have the time and the energy to focus on and give to someone. I’m not a super clingy person and I understand we both need our personal space and time but I would still want us to be close with each other. I want to do things for you, display acts of servitude whether it’s inside or out of the bedroom. Little chores, or making dinner, giving you a massage, those are just some of the things I will offer to do to show my affection towards you.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a partner of a similar ish age, who lives in or around London, to explore more of a femdom dynamic with. I wouldn’t want to jump straight into it, nor am I going to discuss all my kinks here, but building a strong base is key prior to engaging in kink. I’m looking for someone of any expertise when it comes to kink, but you’d need to be switch/domme leaning as I’m a switch but heavily lean sub. I’m looking for someone who’s understanding, loyal, kind, someone’s whose values align with mine. I’m looking for an in person connection and relationship, and I’m more than happy to talk online first to establish trust and ensure there’s a connection forming, but I would hope to move to meeting up for a drink or going on a date to see if there’s real chemistry between us.

Nsfw and kink:

Whilst I’m fairly inexperienced when it comes to kink and playing with a partner, I have been exploring my submissive side over the last 1.5 years and have gained a great understanding of what it means to be submissive, and the kinks that I enjoy and the ones that I don’t. You wouldn’t need to “train” me in that sense as I have explored solo play and have amassed a large collection of toys. I have attended a femdom evening at a club in London and watched some play first hand - although I wouldn’t rate the entire experience very well, but that’s a story for another time…

Thank you if you have read my rather lengthy post, and if you feel like we’d get along and be a good match, then please reach out and message!