Hey everyone! (mostly) obediently transguy sub from the Midlands, UK here. While I don't have a tonne of experience subbing (my previous dynamics have been online only), I've loved it, and I want to further embed myself in the lifestyle, particularly with an in-person dynamic.
I'm not looking for someone super experienced necessarily - I'm happy to explore with a newer Dom - but I'd welcome training by a seasoned Dom. Nearby or within an easily commutable distance would be preferable, as I'm looking for a reasonable amount of in person contact, with online supplementing that.
Ultimately I love authority. If you've a way of commanding subs' respect and making them eager not to step out of line, I'd love a chat. If you like to control your subs day to day, monitoring speech, clothing, underwear, gym goals. If you enforce rules with creative punishments, or like to set challenges. If you've a lot of enthusiasm for Domming (I have a lot of energy lol). If, on principle, you deploy things like regular maintenance spankings, to ensure good compliance or just to humiliate, let's talk!
As a sub, I'm an empathic listener who takes great delight in expressing their creativity to make people happy. I make people things, try my best to challenge the unhelpful thoughts they trust me enough to share, and beam when I've been able to make them laugh. I'm looking for a Dom who can match my energy, is open minded, curious, and kind. It's also really important to me that you know what you need and want, as we need to be able to communicate with you to build a strong and trusting dynamic.
I'll not make this post longer by sharing an exhaustive kinks list, but happy to discuss them and limits in messages.
Thanks for reading this extensive post, and maybe talk to you soon 😊
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