I’m a service sub, with a reasonable amount of experience in slave/Master and general D/s dynamics, including a long-term D/s, loving relationship.

I’m looking for someone who I can love and worship where D/s can be embedded from the outset, but in an exclusive and caring relationship where we both make each other better.

I’m a devotee, who invests heavily in pleasing (this is my main kink) and can quickly develop a sense of worship, care and respect. I see the role of a sub as being to bring the best out of my Dom and please him as best I can. I respond well to tasks and training and previous Doms have said I am enthusiastic, willing and compliant, though I can happily advocate for myself. I am also a sub who relishes degradation and I have a masochistic side too. I am always seeking to push myself further and I am open to most things.

Communication is very important to me, and I am looking for a Dom who wants regular (daily) and open communication, who can hold a conversation and is willing to get to know each other as people - again, the deeper connection that this creates makes for more intimate and ever-evolving play. I like to reflect and discuss and I need to feel that I am growing as a sub in all that I do - I am as ambitious as I am shy and as competitive as I am compliant.

I’m single, and looking ideally for a relationship where D/s is at the heart of it - so it’s likely to work best if you are also: 1. Seeking exclusivity from the outset - I am not looking to be added to a harem of subs, and would prefer a Dom who wants to develop a long-term and committed D/s relationship with one sole sub, based on a genuine connection, as that is when I am at my best, learning, loving, serving with purpose and improving. 2. Ready to communicate regularly and daily 3. Not looking to have kids - I already have grown up ones. It would be great if you did too. 4. Seeking to care for someone and create something lasting - I’ve done casual and it doesn’t satisfy me.

I have a job which is highly demanding and has a relatively public profile, so I need discretion and won’t be sharing face photos until there is some baseline of trust, though I have a fetlife with body images, which I’m happy to share immediately so that you see what I am physically like.

I’m self-sufficient and independent in my day to day life. I think I’m emotionally literate, but I fall in love easily and when I’m in, I’m all in. I’m also needy for communication and reassurance. So please don’t reply unless you want to be truly and deeply adored and have the time, energy and empathy to be able to reciprocate this.

I’m based in London but happy to travel and I do so a lot with work.

If the above sounds interesting to you then please get in touch via DM and we can talk through what you are looking for. Please start by telling me the last book you read and that you are not looking for a casual hookup.