It is the time of New Year resolutions and a rethink of priorities in life. I have a busy life with a good job and I am in a relationship that has become quite vanilla over the years. It is stable and good in many ways, but there is something missing for me. I am dominant and I want BDSM to be part of my life. I have been in a number of intense BDSM based dynamics in the past and as I grow older, I realise that this part is too important in my life for me to miss out on it. I have a strong view that many of us are just wired that way and that we need to find a good safe way to live that side.
I am looking for a woman who ideally is in similar circumstances. I don’t want to be destructive in anybody’s life so kindness, trustworthiness, reliability and discretion are most important to me. I would like to find someone who like me yearns for a long deep kinky connection, something that we can live in whatever form we decide feels right over many years. Getting to know another is important for me, the intimacy makes the BDSM side fulfilling.
I have many interests kinkwise that I am happy to discuss. I am dominant, I enjoy control, play around servitude and humiliation, restraints and the mental side very much.
I offer traits that I am looking for myself, I am reliable and kind. I am also quite experienced, I understand people, I am smart and educated and will offer thoughts and conversation. I have a high sex drive and plenty of the perverse sexual energy and lust that makes this kind of setup worth living for.
You age, experience level or current life situation are not important for me. If you are interested, tell me about yourself, your vanilla self and your kinky self.
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