It is the time of New Year resolutions and the soul-searching that comes with it. I have a busy life with a job that is demanding and time consuming and I am an attached living in a relationship that has become quite vanilla. It is very functional and stable and good in many ways, but there is something missing for me. Prior to it, I have been in a number of intense BDSM based relationships and as I grow older, I realise that this part is too important in my life for me to miss out on it.
I am looking for a woman who is ideally in similar circumstances. I don’t want to be destructive in anybody’s life so kindness, trustworthiness, reliability and discretion are most important to me. I would like to find someone who like me yearns for a long deep kinky connection, something that we can live in whatever form we decide feels right over many years. Getting to know another is important for me, the intimacy makes the BDSM side fulfilling.
What I have to offer is first of all the traits that I am looking for myself in a partner and on top of that, I am an experienced Dom, I understand people, I am smart and educated and will offer thoughts and conversation as well as all the perverse sexual energy and lust that makes this kind of setup worth living for. I am happy to share details of my kinks in private messages.
If you are interested, tell me about yourself, your vanilla self and your kinky self.
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