Hi Redditors,
I'm Ben, an affectionate dom and caregiver/daddy type, a big spoon and complete cuddle-slut.
I'm looking for someone to share passions, kinks adventures and fantasies, to explore and indulge completely, to spend the day snuggled under covers binge watching movies and anime with. Ideally, I want a partner I can claim as mine, who holds my hand when we're walking, is curvy and cuddly, knows what they want and the best way to ask for it, a little spoon who enjoys funishments and knows how & when to misbehave to get them.
I'm divorced, single, no children, STI free (willing to test again before meeting), healthy, a bit neuro-spicy (AuDHD), I've never used illegal drugs and have only ever had unprotected sex with long term partners.
In my day-to-day life, I'm a qualified librarian and former college lecturer, a huge movie nerd (especially 80s horror and sci-fi), anime fan and videogamer. I enjoy cooking and baking, hiking and walking the beautiful South Coast, especially around Hengistbury Head and the New Forest, going to the cinema and live music shows, old school WWE and reading a lot. I want to get into camping, wild swimming and rock climbing.
I'm happiest when I'm naked and spend the majority of my time at home in the nude.
Physically, I'm 178cm and 100kg, broad and solid in build. I've been told I have a nice ass and good legs (!), so I just need to work on my middle, which is a little thick due to my love of food and hatred of sit-ups… I'm happy to share a couple of photos so you know who you're chatting with.
My kinks: Spanking/paddling Post session aftercare Naked spooning & cuddling Giving Oral Bondage/tying/restraining Outdoor sex Sneaky public touching Phone/text roleplay Mutual masturbation Wrestling & pinning Breast & nipple play
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