Hello Princess, welcome to my post. Before I get into it I want to make something crystal clear, I am NOT looking for someone to sext with to help me get off. I’m after someone who partakes in this type of adventure as a lifestyle choice. As such I am in this for the long term with someone I can share a connection with and want you to be as well.

Who I am

I am a 34 year old cis male, who resides in the UK. I live alone in my own home and work in a professional job from home. I am 5ft 9, weighing in at 70kg, brown hair and eyes, happy to share photos. I am often told I have a great face and an intimidating look.

To the outside world, I am a fairly normal and unassuming person, I enjoy all the typical things someone of my position would. Hiking, walking, games, friends, TV and movies (Dune and Dune 2 being my current favourite), and I also enjoy cycling during the summer months. I hate the cold dark windy months.

Personality wise, my friends would describe me as loyal, timely, and intellectually empathic. I can be lazy when it comes to self motivation, I find I work best when I have someone to care for/own. I would describe myself as the kind of person who doesn’t leave someone behind in the group, I will always wait with the stragglers so they don’t get left behind.

I am introverted, loud busy spaces are not really my cup of tea, but I still enjoy meeting new people and getting to know them. I consider myself to be an open book, you need only ask.

For some of my goals this year, I aim to finish working on my house that I bought a few years ago. It was quite dated and needed a fair amount of work. Meet more people in kink scene and start going back to local kink events. Travel around Europe to see the sights.

I would like to find someone I can do these things with, so that is another goal.

What I want / Who you are

As per the title of this post I am looking for a masochistic toy/slave, someone who views this as a lifestyle choice. A woman who enjoys suffering for my love, who understands the power of their submission.

It’s hard to narrow down the exact criteria of who you must be as I feel the connection to the person is the main focus of this post. But to list some of the fundamental and superficial elements.

Cis woman Height and weight proportional Embraces traditionally feminine looks, think skirts and summer dresses Between 24 and 36 Does not have and does not want children Does not smoke

The type of kinks I enjoy that I would want you to embrace and equally enjoy.

• Trust
• Total power exchange
• Orgasm control and denial (Long term)
• Consensual non consent
• Free use
• Bondage
• Service submission
• Degradation/Humiliation/Objectification
• Sadism

As you can tell, this list is not for the faint of heart, and I do mean every one of them. I want a toy I can care for and use however I please.

What I offer

As I am asking for a lot, I recognize that I need to offer just as much. I embrace the principles of Kink to my heart as while I know these might be just words on a screen, I want you to understand that I don’t say something if I don’t mean it.

Communication

• I pride myself on setting expectations and being someone that is easy to listen to and also someone who will listen as well.

Guidance/Safe Space

• While the things I want to do to you might not seem safe and can be quite extreme, I will make it my aim to ensure you feel safe in your submission to me.

Confidentiality

• I’ve played with a number of people in my life, taken videos and pictures and I’ve given all of them the same promise I give now. I will never share anything you share with me even if this arrangement comes to a hostile end, nothing you share will ever be seen by anyone other than myself.

If this sounds like something you're interested in, send me a message, tell me your name, where you are from, and why you think you would be a good match. Bonus gold stars to good girls that attach a photo.