Hi, I am 23m from the north of the UK but travel frequently south to London and Portsmouth area for work. I am looking for a sub/little/pet for a long term dynamic/relationship that is monogynous. I am not looking to rush into things but firstly to get to know you and see if we match well then progress it further.

About me:
I am 5"8 and a bit of a bigger guy but pretty active (I have a new puppy so I don't get much choice either way!) and currently trying to lose a bit of weight. I have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes but I'm colour blind so do not quote me on this. I am just about to purchase my first home with dates for keys in January so generally I would say I am quite successful but to be honest, I just really enjoy my job. As such, it is a huge part of my life and I end up travelling a lot for it (I spend on average 2/3 days a month in London as a minimum but this can be up to two weeks at a time. This year I went to South Africa and Germany with planned visits to two other countries next year). Currently, outside of work I don't travel a lot but I would love someone to go travelling with more.

I would say I am probably a bit of a nerd - my job is in the IT field and I play video games. When it comes to domming, I am kind and caring but also very able to handle a brat - I can be both kind and incredibly cruel with very creative ways to deal with you.

Kink:
I am happy to discuss these in messages - only important thing is my limits which are scat, anything illegal and anything that would result in permanent harm. Otherwise, I enjoy most things to different levels.

What I am looking for:
I would be looking for either a little or just a sub who wants to eventually move to IRL. Someone who is between 18-28 and isn't just looking for a hookup/sex but rather both a relationship and dynamic. Ideally, this would also slowly move to being TPE but this would come much later and with clear boundaries. Lastly, I want someone who has goals and interests, I am not looking for someone to just sit at home and do as they are told - this is a big deal breaker for me (It doesn't really matter what these are as long as you care about them!).