Hey everyone! I'm a 22-year-old trans man (FTM) based in West London, UK, looking to find a dom for in-person play. I am married, but in an open relationship as my wife is asexual, so you'd have to be okay with that - she is fully aware and supportive, this is not a cheating situation. I'm open to any/all genders. :)

A bit about me - I'm 5'4", chubby, with curly hair and a beard. I love music and reading, I'm pretty keen on dogs and cats equally, and I have an unhealthy obsession with bubble tea 😄 Also, bonus points if you like doing things like bowling, laser tag, mini golf, etc, because I love finding and doing stuff like that!

As a base, I'm looking for someone that falls into the following categories:

-19-33 years old

-Able to host (though I may be able to host at times, it's not guaranteed)

-Lives in London or frequently travels here, and is open to in-person play

-Willing to provide STI test results (obviously I will do the same)

-Open to a FWB-style dynamic - would be great to find someone I vibe/click with as friends, and hang out outside of just the sex!

-Comfortable with domming and topping only - I don't mind if you're a dom or switch, top or vers, but I'm a sub, and not interested in switching

-Are at least a little into men - I've been on T for over 6 years and had top surgery, so I look like a man. I have not had bottom surgery, but even without that, it's not going to look the exact same as a cis woman due to the hormones. I get that sexuality is complicated, so I don't mind if you're mostly or normally into women, and I also don't mind being your first trans guy/person, but if you're only interested in women, seriously don't reach out - I promise I'm not what you're looking for lol

-Willing to be patient - I've got some experience with men and women, but I'm still a bit new in the grand scheme of things

-Not a Tory (essential lmao)

If you've gotten this far and are interested, please message me with a bit about you and what you're looking for! I'm happy to chat for a bit and get to know each other first, or skip right to talking about the details of kink and save the getting to know each other for when we grab a coffee. Please note that I don't have a Snapchat or anything else along those lines, and am unwilling to sext or send photos. I don't mind talking a bit online, but I'm much more interested in in-person interactions.

Finally, for reference - I don't have many hard limits, but here are a few that I'm absolutely not willing to do (probably not exhaustive):

-Extreme pain (incl anything that leaves a mark) -Any sort of public play -Most wet & messy / "gross" play

I'm also open to trying just about anything, but here is an (also non-exhaustive I'm sure) idea generally of what I think could be fun to try!:

-Bondage -Orgasm control (edging and denial, forced orgasms, etc) -Praise kink -(Private) humiliation -Spanking -Feminisation -CNC -Tickling -Med play -Age play -Pet play