Firstly, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! You are looking for guidance to help your submissive journey, at a steady pace, by someone who is understanding and patient. Vanilla just doesn't work for you anymore! Importantly, you are looking for a D/s relationship with an older experienced warm natured Dom, who has a great sense of humour. You may have some or very limited experience but what you have is in abundance is a real curiosity to explore your deeper submissive identity. This Dom can help!

You are a 18 - 50 aged woman, you may be single or partnered (discretion assured). You crave connection, attention, exclusivity and intimacy. You are even romantic at heart. If you are in England meet up for real once we are comfortable with each other online is a possibility, if we have the connection. But, if you not in England online is fine.

You are looking for a D/s dynamic with clear routines, daily tasks, structure, discipline, you crave a firm, strong, confident Dom/sadist to guide you through your journey.

You have many kinks including: impact play, restraints/ rope, blindfolds, gags, nipple torture, rough sex, anal play, edge play, fear play, breath play, CNC, eye contact/speech restrictions, orgasm control, denial, sensory deprivation play, psychological play and more. In fact you have a masochist personality.

More about me: I am a 56 year old gentlemen, 5.8 tall, dark eyes and olive skin, who is fit, diligent, loving, respectful, caring, hardworking with conservative views and dad bod. Disciplined in my own life, with strict values so ideally positioned to lead and inspire your feminine needs. I have a good attitude / character with defined goals for myself so I can help mentor and coach you to set and achieve your goals for growth whether these are physical, emotional, mental or sexual kink. I am a professional person so boundaries will be need to be respected as will yours. You will also need to be comfortable that I am partnered in my vanilla life. Its okay if you are too as mentioned.

I have many hobbies and interests. I enjoy gym, travelling, reading, walking, coffee, street art, true crime and just binge watching a series of netflix etc. I also enjoy sports, the beach, etc or just having a good old fashion conversation about anything really.

Important bit: I see the dynamic as under pinned by safety and consensual trust built over time.

Lets start a slow burner and explore how you feel about submission: your desires, needs for kink, punishment and pain. Lets talk about your goals, training needs, goals, safe space, routines, protocols, structure, expectations, hard and soft limits, kinks and non negotiables, rewards, punishments, bondage, pain, rituals, role play, edging or general sexting, etc. Are you clingy, needy or bratty no problem I will not make you feel bad about this. Bratty is my Oreo cookie.

I am as interested in your vanilla life (work, hobbies, interests etc) as much as your sub/ masochist life. I hate ghosting so you will need to be available to chat during the day and night depending on our boundary limits. Hope to hear from you soon. No, trans or sissy boys! Just want a real girl! I will ask for verification of this.