Looking for something meaningful and kinky in the south west.

The kinky

Experienced in kink. I would love to meet my kinky Queen, to explore our sexuality and the world together. I lean dominant but do switch and would be open to dynamics that lean one way or the other.

Dominating, I desire someone who wants to be utterly lusted for, who craves to be used, teased, fucked, owned and ruined. Someone who wants to worship and be worshipped; nurtured and praised. A lot of particular kinks, a few of the more perverted ones are listed at the bottom (not exhaustive or exclusive).

The vanilla

Independent and intellectual. Broad interests, including: politics, philosophy, land rights, gardening, travelling, languages, carpentry, instruments, mechanics, economics, the sciences, nature, and travelling. An extroverted introvert.

Music is a big part of my life. Tastes include blues, folk, jungle, punk, reggae, tekno, bluegrass, dubstep, hip-hop, breakcore, classical and more.

I wold love to find the right kinky match(es). Someone with whom my values, trajectory in life and sexuality align.

I am agnostic on relationship style. I enjoy being free to meet, connect and play with others, but the right relationship with the right person is more important to me.

I prefer to just meet if there is a bit of mutual interest. I try not to be entitled and do not assume a date indicates anything other than two people trying to get a feel for each other. It is just so much more straight forward than trying to connect online via messaging relentlessly, which I find a bit artificial.

I am physically fit and healthy. Happy to shar pics if we click.

Sex and body positive. I value communication and consent.

Some current kinks include: Talking dirty, coporeal punishment, bimbofication, CNC, humiliation, gags, hoods, body writing, predicament bondage, slapping, setting tasks, begging, watersports, objectification, dollification, sensory dep and... plenty more. It all really depends on the dynamic.