About me: Physical I’m 27, single, white with brown hair and a short beard that is ginger. Weathered face but working on that. 10 tattoos covering my body. 1 is a full sleeve and then I’ve got 2 big pieces on my stomach and then a big one on my calf. I have 4 piercings and they are all in my ears.Blue eyes, slim toned build, 5’7,none smoker, clean with proof of negative test. Hairy body with a hairy stomach and chest/clean down below

Personality: Shy at first but once comfortable I become a different person. Very dark sense of humour that I only let out around people who I feel can handle it. If my ego is stroked then I become a completely different person again so you have been warned 😂 very passionate about work and very much a hard worker. My love language tends to be touch and time spent together but from time to time these change depending on the person and the dynamic. I have been blessed with a sprinkle of autism but have never been tested to know the final result

interests and general: I’m definitely a home body. I had my party phase when I was in my early 20’s and I’m very much over that. My job is quite physical demanding so I like to be well rested because it makes work a lot easier. The nature of my jobs makes me very good with my hands and building things.When at home I very much like chilling out on the sofa or in bed watching Netflix. I’m currently making my way through It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I have started a new hobby which is snowboarding. I am very much enjoying and putting some time and effort into that. The aim is to go on holiday one day but I’m more than happy with the indoor stuff in the uk at the minute. I have my own home and no children. I’m not looking to have any children and that’s a big thing for me. It’s ok if you have your own but just know I don’t want any of my own. This year I have been putting more effort into taking my self out and enjoying time on my own. I have been making my way through my list of museums and other activities

What I’m looking for: We don’t need to beat around the bush here. I’m looking for someone who is kink friendly and ready to explore. I’m not looking for anything online, this is only real life situations. I’m looking for someone who is submissive by nature but then doesn’t mind switching but not very often. I don’t mind if you have loads of experience or you’re at the beginning of your story, as long as you have an open mind. I’m ok with short term or long term. Power exchange is a very big kink for me and love being given control

Attraction/looks: Now please take all this with a pinch of salt as I have only every dated one person who is my ideal type in my whole life and the rest haven’t been my type but I have been very much attracted to them just the same. I’m ok with you being older or younger. Any height even if you’re taller. I prefer skinny/ curvy,please no bigger than that. Tattoos,piercings and coloured hair are my weakness (goth girls). I’m a boob man over arse but I appreciate all sizes. Personality wise I like someone who is easy going humour wise and hard driven when it comes to life

Kinky stuff: I’ve been exploring for the past 4 years now and I’ve been enjoying every minute of it. To some people I’ve done loads and to some I’ve barely scratched the surface. Some of my favourite kinks are: Impact play, restrains, cnc, fisting/stretching, wax play, eating and anything to do with arse,orgasm control.I’m very much a pleaser in the bedroom and it gets me off seeing you have a good time. I enjoy sleeping with trans woman from time to time. I’ve never done group stuff mostly to do with traumas from past relationships but with the right person I might be ready to explore that. I definitely want to look at going to an event/club with someone. I wouldn’t mind doing a couple of rope classes as well so I need a partner to come with me. I have been building up my toy collection for a little while now so don’t worry I’ve got you covered

Now with Reddit being Reddit and the past experiences I have had. I will be asking for a verification very early doors as I’m feed up of speaking to guys pretending to be girls or scammers or people who just like to waste your time. Attraction is a very big thing for me as well so this kills two birds with one stone. This proves to me that you’re really who you say you are and also I can see if there is an attraction as well. I am more than happy to send a verification afterwards and any pictures you would like. I’m not camera shy when it comes down to it. I live in Northamptonshire and the closer you live the better but if it’s less than a couple of hours out then that’s ok too

I have taken a lot of time and effort to give you guys as much details as I can so please when messaging out in the same effort. If you’re interested at all and feel like we would be a good match then please message me with as much details about your self as you can. Pretty much copy this post but changing the details to your life. Thank you for reading,I know it became very long