I am a 31 year old male from America living in Central London. I’m looking for a long term relationship that has kink inside of it.

About me: All of this will be in American measurements for my ease. I am 5’10” 225 lbs blue eyes, brown hair. As mentioned above, I am 31 years old no kids. I am a massive nerd. I can discuss current geopolitics and also how the Jedi Order was truly corrupt. I love to travel, amusement parks, museums, walking, going to the gym, and theatre.

Deeper about me: so look, I’m looking for my future forever. I know they are out there (and yes I’m on the dating apps but they are horrible). I am a goofball, golden retriever type person who just loves to love and loves to support. I’m huge into boundaries and respect as I know it’s a two way street. I will always treat a romantic partner as an extension of myself. I place massive emphasis on communication and boundaries. My love languages are quality time and physical touch.

Red flags about me: so everyone should be able to put their own red flags out there. I am divorced and that happened 5 years ago. I have really dated since until a month ago. I took that time to heal and get help and it worked for the most part. I do overthink and that can look like trust issues. These are my issues to deal with and not yours. I have been getting a lot better. I tend to attach quickly as well, not love bomb (cause that happened to me) but more like want to spend free time with my partner. I have my own hobbies and friends so I tend to use them as my escape.

Kinks: So now comes the fun part! I have been in the kink world for 10 years now. Lots of research, 2 long term relationships (not with the ex), and more research have given me a great understanding of who I am as a Dom. I am a soft Dom. I love being compassionate and caring until you push the right buttons. Then I go into my sadist, dominate, passive person I can be. My kinks range all over the place and I’m an “experimentalist”. I’ll try anything twice (can’t know if you only try it once). My hard limit that I have discovered is scat and my soft limits are piss and blood. It’s still a developing list and I value communication above all.

If you want to get to know me, shoot me a message! I’d love to get to know you more. If you read this far, tell me 3 places you want to travel too!