I am a 29 year old man from Austria who recently moved to the UK and currently lives a bit outside of London. I am looking for a submissive woman who is at least 22 years old and ideally lives in the UK. Prior experience does not matter to me, as I am also quite new to living out my dominant side, even though I have some experience. I want to connect with someone who is open to explore and learn together and someone who shares the same values. BDSM for me is all about trust, so even though I am looking for someone to enjoy experiences together in person, it is important for me to get to know each other first over text etc. If the trust is built and consent can be 100% ensured, this is what I want/like/am:

I want someone who likes to give up control over her body. I want to have full control over your pleasure and your orgasms. I want you to follow my rules or otherwise you will get punished. I want you to follow my commands if I want you to do something. I do not want to humiliate you. I want to take care of you. I want to cook us a meal, while you are tied to my bed. I want to take you out for dinner, while I control the toy inside of you. I want to hear about your day, while I play with your body. I do not just want to have sex, I want sex to be a constant part in our lives.

I like 24/7, bondage, impact play, orgasm control and sensation play. My limits are extreme humiliation, lasting damage and scat play. I am open to discuss/try a lot of not mentioned things.

I am 29 years old, 6'3" tall and more of a big guy in terms of weight. I am somewhat of a friendly giant with a few tattoos and piercings, that someone would probably not expect to have this dominant side. I am open to different forms of relationships, ethical non-monogamy and casual sexual connections. I do not tolerate any form of sexism, racism, ableism, body-shaming or discrimination because of sexuality and gender identity. For me BDSM is based on equality, respect and trust. I also do not believe men should have any control over womens bodies outside of consensual bdsm contexts.

If this resonates with you, I would like to get to know more about you and what you like and want out of a D/s connection.