38 [M4F] #UK or ONLINE - Dom searching for more than just a kinky dynamic

Hi,

My name is Al. I’m 38, 6ft tall, ‘dad bod’ build, bearded, rugged and fairly well endowed if you like that.

I am in a long term, open relationship and my partner is fully aware.

I have been involved in BDSM for close to 20 years. I began primarily as a daddy dom and caregiver before fully embracing a more sadistic role and darker kinks.

I like to think I’m very good at being a dom. I’m patient, understanding and respectful of boundaries and limits - I like to push, but never cross. I’m also absolutely non judgmental when it comes to kinks, I’m into some twisted stuff myself so very likely to enjoy things you do - and if not, I’m up for giving them a go and exploring with you.

Outside of kink I am a huge nerd who enjoys sci fi, horror, fantasy, superhero stuff etc. I love live music and I’m pretty good in the kitchen.

I have a wickedly dark and deadpan sense of humour.

Onto what I’m looking for;

In an ideal world, we’d be able to indulge in kinks and play 24/7, but in the real world work, studies, socialising and life in general get in the way.

I find that dynamics based entirely on kink start incredibly bright and then fizzle out within a few days.

I want to be in this for the long term. I want a partner who can converse and talk about their day to day, their hobbies and interests with me. Ideally someone who might consider themselves clingy or craves attention from their dom.

I like to view dynamics as a two way street. I want you to be able to indulge in your favourite kinks as well as enjoying mine. It’s much more fun if my sub enjoys themselves rather than going through the motions of indulging in kinks they don’t enjoy.

If any of this sounds appealing, drop me a chat and let’s get to know each other.