Hello :)

I'm a laid back and friendly guy who is searching for his forever partner. I'm a dom leaning switch and I'm open to various dynamics. I'm kind and considerate, can be a little clingy but I respect all boundaries and consent. I'm looking for someone I click with in and out of the bedroom. I'm open to 24/7 arrangements but I would consider any kind of set-up. I'd love to build a relationship where I can share everything with my partner and experience life together.

I'm a bit of a nerd and love video games (I create them too but it's hard work). I watch a lot of movies (old sci-fi is my favourite but I enjoy most genres). I love music from lots of different genres (I record some tracks too but don't have much talent). I read a lot, or listen to audio books while I work.

I love to work with my hands and even though I'm not artistic I love to create things whether it's from textiles, wood, plastic, metal or whatever. I'm great at DIY, fixing things and problem solving.

I love animals (I have a cat and miss having dogs). I love nature and being outdoors, I used to have my own business where I was outdoors all day.

I'm very open and think communication is critical. I can take a little while to open up but enjoy long chats, especially over voice or even video (when we get comfortable). Ideally I'd like to meet IRL eventually but online is fine to begin with. I'd be up for swapping pics at the right time too.

As a dom I'm gentle and caring with a slight sadistic side. I see myself as a bit of a caregiver figure. I enjoy brats and princesses alike. Being given control is very sexy even if it doesn't involve anything directly sexual. My kinks include praise, orgasm control/edging/teasing/denial, light impact play and bondage. I'm open to other kinks or DD/lg type relationships within reason too.

As a sub I like praise, affirmations and being gently controlled. I'd work hard to please and follow instructions. I'm not little but I do appreciate nurturing, care and protection. I love to give up control and not have to worry about anything. I don't like anything anal. I don't enjoy being degraded.

Hard limits either way: blood, scat, permanent damage, kids, animals, illegal stuff etc.

I've had some medical issues which affected me a lot, I lost a lot of self-confidence and I'm working on getting it back. Some patience and understanding is much appreciated. Happy to talk more about this.

I'd be happy to answer any questions or just chat more and see if we click.

Thanks for reading.