This will probably be somewhat of a unique post here but I thought I would give it a try.

I am a dominant 23-year-old British Christian patriarchal man seeking a submissive traditional Christian wife to share a life together. Here is a bit about me and what I value:

About Me:

• I very much believe in the traditional framework of the husband being the head of his wife. I will be your leader, provider and protector.
• I am currently pursuing a part-time science degree out of passion, with the goal of getting a doctorate in quantum physics.
• I am financially stable, guaranteed for at least the next five years and am able to support a stay-at-home wife who chooses not to work.
• I am an Anglican and deeply devoted to God, studying apologetics, and aspiring to be a husband guided by Biblical principles.
• I am handy and exercise regularly, I have an athletic build.
• I am an extrovert who enjoys gaming, television, friendly debates, and exploring topics like politics, psychology, and philosophy.

What I am Looking For:

• I am seeking a committed relationship leading to marriage, with a dominant/submissive dynamic where I will be the head of the household while my wife nurtures our home and relationship.
• I want a wife who knows her place in our marriage, as the helpmate, the cheerleader, confidant, waitress, nurture and bedfellow of her husband.
• I want a wife, who like me, cares about being fit and healthy and maintaining appearance.
• I want a dedicated Protestant partner who values her role as a wife and prioritises her relationship with God.
• We should both believe in a hierarchy of priorities: God first, then us, followed by our community and beyond.
• We should both have a respectful and loving approach to intimacy, viewing it as a sacred gift within marriage.
• Is content with being disciplined in whatever way is appropriate if you get out of line

The Bedroom:

• I am a virgin but I do not mind if you are not as we have all fallen short in one way or another; my main focus is that you view intimacy as a beautiful gift from God within marriage and are willing to wait until that sacred union for us to be intimate.
• Rather uniquely, I do not ever what to engage in PIV, instead preferring anal and throat intercourse, marital aids and other forms of sex.
• I want to explore various kinks, so I am happy with pretty much anything you would like to do.
• Speaking of exploration just because you will be submissive in our relationship, does not mean I will always want you to be in the bedroom, I believe I am a switch leaning to dominant, so if you are a switch leaning to submissive, that would be the most conducive.
• We will both be free use for anything the other desires
• If you are interested in kinks such as: 1950s (to match day to day life), slave/master, body-part worship, spanking, roleplay and service, those would be of benefit.

Baggage:

• We all carry baggage and have all made mistakes, and it is unrealistic to expect a flawless spouse, despite what some may claim on Reddit.
• What I think is crucial is how individuals handle their own faults and past errors. I believe the best expectation is for everyone to acknowledge their wrongdoings, seek repentance, learn from their past sins, and actively strive to improve, all with God’s help. This is the approach I have, and it is what I seek in a wife as well.
• I am not so much concerned about your past, as much as how you have moved on from it; whether you have struggled with alcohol, followed a different faith, done p-rn, or even went to prison for murder; what matters most is your demonstration of redemption. I value someone who can effectively navigate challenges and guilt in a constructive, Godly manner.
• I believe that spouses should excel in each other’s deficits; so we should be strong where the other is weak, so we can support each other lovingly and proactively when we struggle with our own flaws and deficiencies.

A Few Details:

• I do not want to have children and thus I am seeking a wife who shares this view.
• I am committed to the sanctity of marriage and do not believe in divorce, so I am seeking a partner with similar convictions. When I vow to be with my wife “for better, for worse… until death do we part” I intend to mean it.
• I am open to a long distance relationship, but not relocation.

If you resonate with these values and are interested in embarking on a journey together, feel free to reach out. Let us explore the possibilities of a meaningful and fulfilling partnership, leading to marriage, built on a traditional structure of gender roles, faith, respect, and love.

Looking forward to connecting with you.