Hello,

Very much understand I am trying to find a needle in a haystack, but hopefully able to find the right person based on what I am after and being encouraged by some fellow kinksters to use this platform as I did try before, but perhaps did not put enough effort into my profile the last time I made such a post.

I am very direct in what I am after, and I am seeking to build a long term relationship with someone who is keen to do explore a sub/domme dynamic. I am not after something short term where we get each other off and never speak again, I am really wanting to understand this person inside and out, and generally have a great relationship outside of the kink world. I very much believe this only improves the kink stuff a lot more due to that pre-existing connection and chemistry built. In regards to the future, being honest, the dream scenario is to find my future person through this, but I totally understand that this could me ambitious.

In regards to what I am into, I always feel more comfortable speaking about this once I have generally got to know the person, but I really do not have many limits and find the aspects of exploring and building the dynamic that makes us both happy very appealing.

I would very much expect this to remain online at the start, and then once both of us are happy, to then arrange real life meet ups, attend kink events together or whatever we both agree is something we want to do, again communication and trust is so important.

I would also want to say the person needs to be in the UK, I am not keen on massive time zone differences or future issues with travel.

About me:

I am 28, based in the UK, I am currently working in finance, in particular financial crime where I hold quite a senior role which is very fast paced and pressure enduring on a day-to-day basis. Prior, I came from an IT background before eventually moving into the world of finance.

I am massively into fitness and sports. I am currently very much into the gym where I go very frequently, along with doing runs and walks and throughout the week. I also have been doing MMA for nearly 15 years, and currently specialise in Muay Thai and Karate. I also am massively into my football (not very good) but play casually with work and friends a lot - along with following it.

My other hobbies are mainly around being social, I don't drink and don't smoke either but still enjoy a night out or event. I am very family oriented and very much enjoy spending time with my family and my dog (Harry the Pom) - pictures available on request. I am also a mental health first aider, it is a course I underwent earlier this year for work and have very much been heavily involved in promoting mental health awareness, along with training and being involved in a lot of charity events.

I would not say I am a massive gamer anymore, I won't lie and say that I sometimes partake in some very casual game with my pals, but again, very happy to play with my future partner if this is something they are into (just take it easy on me). I just very much focus on staying as active as I can rather than spend time in front of the computer all day.

I also do love a movie/series binge with the right person, I have also found a way to stream this over discord so we can remotely watch something together in sync! (My IT nerdiness coming clutch)

If the above does appeal to you, then I really look forward to hearing from you and really getting to know you. Again, kinks is something I will happily go through, and would really then look forward to your learning about the kinks that make you tick also.

Thanks for reading! :)