Hello,

I am in an open relationship. My partner and I are sexually incompatible and opened our relationship up to explore with other people and options.

I know this is a dealbreaker for a lot of people so I’ve got it out of the way so you don’t waste your time with this post if you’re not interested in getting to know me further.

My name is BEAR and I’m a 37 year old guy from London. I am white, 5’11” and have the epitome of “dad bod”. I’m bearded and built like a grizzly plus I’m somewhat well endowed.

Personality wise; I’m outgoing and confident, sarcastic and dry sense of humour. I have interests in all things geeky like science fiction, fantasy, video games, graphic novels etc.

I love to cook and I occasionally like to skateboard as a hobby / way to exercise.

I have been involved in BDSM in some way or another for nearly 20 years (since I was 19). I began primarily as a daddy dominant / caregiver and over the years my tastes have become more sadist driven but I still maintain a few aspects of daddy dom. A sadistic daddy maybe if that’s even a thing.

It has been two years since my last dynamic and I truly am missing having a submissive partner.

I’m looking for someone with similar interests (this is an absolute must). As much as I would love a 24/7 dynamic, it just isn’t possible with life, work, studies etc so I need someone who can also form a relationship outside of kink - someone who would see themselves as clingy or needy - I love that trait and it makes me feel wanted.

Preferably based in the UK but I am happy to talk with anyone and have online dynamics if need be.

If you’re interested in possibly chatting some more, drop me a chat with a little bit about yourself and what you’re looking for in a potential dom.

Kinks Extreme humiliation and degradation, CNC, impact play, binding, watersports, EFRO, gagging, choking, spanking, bimbofication, exhibitionism and voyeurism, public.

Respectful of boundaries and limits