Thanks to the cultural changes arising from the cost of living crisis and pandemic it's never been harder to meet people IRL, and dating apps are soul-sucking, so I'm here to try a different approach...

I've been kinky for over 15 years - not just in private with partners but also openly at fetish events/parties/etc in London, Berlin, and beyond (e.g. Japan) and photographing parties, people, and models of the scene for over 10 years. Along the way I've had countless experiences, both solo and shared with partners, and have learned a lot about myself, what brings me pleasure, and many ways of bringing pleasure to others. Of course I haven't tried everything, I'm always open to new experiences and preferences can change too.

Vanilla me is educated, creative, extroverted, into movies, photography, art & exhibitions, burlesque & cabaret, theatre & immersive experiences, music (especially 80’s, goth, rock, drum'n'bass), I love to party (most weekends) and I'm more than a bit of a foodie so I travel not just to see but to experience and eat!

Looks wise I’m white (slightly tanned but not a sun worshipper), slim, 6ft2in / 189cm tall, with medium length brown hair & blue eyes, no tattoos or piercings (though I appreciate them on others, indeed I'm one of very few people I know who don't have any), and I’ve always been told that I look younger than I am, plus my sartorial style veers between conventional and alternative, and I'm always happy to dress up for any occasion.

I’m looking for a woman with a naughty smile, shapely figure, a playful & extroverted personality, submissive but not passive, someone either already confident in her sexuality or is seeking to explore her desires, to fulfil her fantasies, and to be guided & introduced to new kinks and pleasures by someone she can learn from, perhaps me.

So if you've read all of this and feel excited about the possibility of connecting then please do reach out - start a chat via my profile and tell me a little about yourself, what you're seeking from a new partner, and what about my post resonated with you most.

Over to you! 😈

PS - You'll find a photo of me on my profile and can send more when we get to know each other.