Hi everyone,

I’m Mark, 36/M, looking for a submissive to take part in an online dynamic based on orgasm control.

I’ve been active in the kink scene as a dominant for over 10 years and have lots of experience running online and IRL sessions and dynamics catering for a wide range of kinks. I enjoy switching up my methods to suit my submissive partner(s) but my absolute favourite dynamic to play in is one where I am in control of someone’s pleasure through denial, overstimulation, or both.

I’m looking for an ongoing dynamic, where I would be setting you rules, challenges, and keeping you accountable. Ultimately, I want you to give up control of your pleasure to me! This does not necessarily mean a focus on denial, I get a special thrill from seeing the frustration on a submissive’s face after getting achingly close to cumming then having it snatched away but the control is really what I am looking for. As such, I would also be open to running a dynamic where a submissive was required to get themselves off a given number of times a day for example. Likewise, there will be punishments for not following the rules, which could range from additional restrictions to corporal punishment to humiliation depending on what we negotiate.

I am experienced in running dynamics with submissives across the gender spectrum and and looking to focus more on a female or NB/Trans submissive, but would still play with a male if we 'click'. I consider myself straight outside of kink but for me the control aspects of this sort of relationship are where the attraction lies for me. My vision for this is that we would communicate via chat but again, any details can be negotiated. Finally, I’m based in the UK, so ideally you would be in a time zone close to GMT but I can be flexible around this.

Outside of kink, I’m a former Army officer now University lecturer focusing on media, politics and linguistics. I’m also interested in reading, music, and playing rugby, and am always happy to chat about those or anything else haha.

Please get in touch if you are interested or have any questions, I look forward to chatting with you soon!