PLEASE NOTE: If you have the intent to message and then unexplainably disappear after a few minutes, hours or days, please save yourself the trouble and skip this post.

Throughout my life I have experienced some D/s only relationships and came to realise that that's not fulfilling enough.

Over the years I've realised that a combination of a regular relationship (bf and gf) with a BDSM one (D/s) is where my sweet spot is. This way I can combine the commitment, love and care of a regular relationship, with the darkest parts of myself that are related to domination and inflicting pain, humiliation, discipline, etc.

I really want to create a world that is only hours that, seen from the outside, looks like a "normal couple" but between us two we build a sense of trust and mutual understanding that makes us explore more extreme forms of BDSM with the security and commitment of a loving relationship.

Although I have a strong dominant/sadistic side, I am naturally an affectionate person and so the aftercare would be something to look forward to as much as the sessions themselves.

I am into:

Breast pain play (probably one of my favourite kinks) that can include tit spanking (with different objects and hands), binding play, painfully squeeze them, stretch them, nipple play, applying weights, etc. For this I have a preference for big breasts (which they can be as big and saggy as possible).

General impact play in the rest of the body, humiliation (in actions or verbally), giving assignments, water sports, bondage, etc. I am also always opened to explore different things I haven't done or considered yet.

Physical preferences:

Due to what I am into and although I am into most body types, I tend to feel more attracted to curvier women rather than slimmer ones as they usually have bigger, fatter or saggier breasts and a bigger "body area to play with".

If this "best of both worlds" mix between the two types of relationships interest you, send me a message.

Thanks for reading this. I will be looking forward to hearing from you.