As the title suggests, I'm not that experienced in the scene, but this is one of the ways I'm working on overcoming that :)

From a very young age I've been interested in bondage. I strongly prefer metal restraints (mainly handcuffs) as one would need a key to unlock - with rope anybody can untie, but without the key to your cuffs all one can do is stare. I'm also into humiliation and TPE.

In my ideal world, which is obviously subject to working together to ensure both our needs and desires are met, without crossing any boundaries, I'd like a dynamic where your outfits would be chosen for you, an increasing amount of rules and protocols with punishments for disobedience and casual bondage being a common occurence (think watching a movie together on the sofa with your hands in handcuffs, or locked in a cage next to it?). Chosen outfits would usually be completely vanilla, context appropriate clothes. But on some days it might be a school uniform? DDlg type dynamics can be included, but I have certain limits around the littles age.

That said, I'm quite affectionate and you'd never be far away from a cuddle. As a dom i'm soft and caring first, strict and stern second. Your wellbeing is always my top priority. I have no interest in anything that may hurt you down the line. I'm looking for someone to develop a deep bond with, based on a deep level of mutual trust. I want to be able to laugh, have fun and explore beautiful places in and beyond the UK. Whether that be in a full vanilla context or if you'd have your hands cuffed through the belly pocket of your hoodie.

While these are my preferences, I'm quite flexible and open to other things. Whether it's just a bit of bondage here and there or total life control, if there's any overlap at all feel free to message - the worst that could happen is we find out lateron that our desires aren't compatible. While my location indicates the South East of England, I love driving and while longer distances may make frequent meetings harder, for the right person I'm absolutely willing to drive up and down the country.

In the vanilla world, I work in IT, know multiple languages (unfortunately no real exciting ones), enjoy photography and like to play a game (online or board) every now and then. If you've made it this far down and want to message me, please include what your favourite pair of shoes are (just a description is fine).