I thought I would try posting on here and see what happens.

So I am looking for a deep, meaningful relationship that begins with the development of a mental & emotional & physical connection.

I would say that firstly the mental and emotional connection has to come first before the physical connection as I am very much led by my mind and my feelings. (I know this is quite rare but just speaking the truth)

As for meeting people or chatting with people. I always have a preference to chat to people online for a significant period of time. As that allows me to see if my mind & thoughts line up with yours and for you to also see if our minds and thoughts line up with one another. When I mean mind and thoughts I mean do I like how you think, do I like how you operate, do I like how you are as a person, do I like your ethics, do I like your morales, do I like your goals, do I like you life ambitions, do I like your personality, do I like your character, do I like you as a decent human being. Through conversation and chats, I can work out if I like you or if I don't and I am sure you will be able to do the same. I place a large emphasis on people being decent, kind, caring, compassionate human beings to start off with. Having even these basic traits will lead very well with me.

As for myself, I am a very complex person and also a very private person. I like my privacy and I like others to respect this as I will yours. I will have red flags and deal breakers and I am sure you will also. Again, through conversation we will work out if one of us has any red flags or deal breakers and then this will put an end to our conversations and that is perfectly fine. As it is about making sure the person you are chatting to is the person that you are most compatible with.

Here are some details about my physical self = I am 43 years of age but when I am clean shaven you could take maybe 10 years off that number. I only have a small amount of facial hair and when that grows I then go down to being clean shaven. I am 5ft 11.75inches. Average to slim build. Dark hair with bits of grey. Oval Face. Dark eyes. Olive skin that tans well and quickly. Olive skin comes from my indian heritage (not American Indian). I have body hair and some of this is grey and dark.

Here are some details about my mind = So I am quite a black and white person when it comes to thinking but I can add some grey in the mix too. As I know that life is not black or white. I have a very logical, rational mind and thinking style. I am also very reflective, self aware, analytical, critical thinker, reflective and just think very differently.

Here are some details about my soul or my feelings = I am a very kind, caring, loving, compassionate, empathic, sensitive, expressive, able to cry, able to express my feelings within a safe and secure environment and very much in touch with my internal feelings.

As for my complex nature and life choices and the way I live life. I am pansexual, demisexual and polyamorous. I know a lot of people will completely see my being poly as a red flag and a deal breaker and that is fine. As it's about finding the best and more suitable match.

I have also chosen not to have kids and I never want them. I am also not married and I don't want to be married. I also currently live with parents but that is not a long term choice. I will be looking to move out when I can. I am also not wealthy or rich when it comes to money but rich in my soul and being a nice human being.

I think I have covered everything I want to get out. My goal is to connect with a person, with whom we have many things in common both mentally and emotionally and more. To develop a relationship that is meaningful and kind, caring, nurturing, loving. That allows us to enjoy each other's company and time and to take care of one another.

Reach out with a chat request, where we can then chat and see how we get on.

Thank you