Hi kinksters!

I've posted personal ads on reddit a few times over the years, with varied and interesting responses! I felt like trying again for a final time on this dull and dreary Monday.

I am looking for.... quite a lot actually! I would love to meet a naturally dominant and experienced, older-than-me man for the whole shebang - friendship, romance, D/s, lots of laughter and building a life together. I value integrity, loyalty and a mature mindset in a man, and am typically attracted to very masculine traits.

I am looking for monogamy and commitment, and I am not open to ENM or casual play.

I am not looking for a dominant who is extremely sadistic, or who seeks TPE, 24/7 or slavery. I am looking for in-person only, strictly no online.

A little bit about me - I am very single and have been for 4 or 5 years now. I am currently training and studying in a new field for me which takes up most of my time and energy, but that is set to change from summer onwards when I qualify and things slow down. I don't have kids, I love cats, and I'd say I am quite introverted and like my own company. Equally though I enjoy spending time with friends and family, but usually need time to recover afterwards, haha! INFJ if you're into MBTI typing. I would describe myself as assertive, warm, curious and kind, amongst loads of other things!

Kink-wise, I have been indulging in, or learning about, or researching, or involved in kink/BDSM/D/s my whole adult life in varying levels of intensity as life ebbed and flowed. I have played on both sides of the slash, but I am very s-leaning. I prefer to talk specifics with people once a foundation is there, but must stress I am not looking to dive in right away and need to get to know a man first. I believe I am worth the investment.

If you made it this far - thanks for reading, and happy, safe kinking!