Having read lots of post on here over a period of time. This has really helped me to narrow down what I want and am looking for.

I am basically looking for a sweet submissive.

Being a very kind, caring, soft, nuturing and gentle male. I am looking to explore and experiment with my Dominate side with a nice, kind, caring, sweet submissive female.

To be very up front. I don't have any prior experience as a Dom. I have read so many posts on reddit which state they want someone who is experienced. I am not experienced. I am wanting to learn and develop and grow and hopefully we can both learn and develop nd grow together. So it woudl be awesome to have someone that would be patient with me.

I would also be fine if you don't have experience as a submissive.

This post is to put my intentions out to find someone I mesh with so that we can gain what we both want from the interaction with one another.

I know myself enough. That my Dominate side would be best suited to someone who does not have an Brat tendencies or is not a Little and also not a Masochist. These are the only main points that I need to state. If you are or posses these, we would then not suit one another.

MY REQUIREMENT = I need a mental and emotional connection to be comfortable with a person and to be able to explore. I find that I really enjoy the psychological component to being a Dom as much as the other components. To have and develop a mental and emotional connection, this will require an equal investment from you and equal investment from me for us to develop the mental and emotional connection. If you are not able to do this then we won't be suited to one another.

MY COMMUNICATION = I would like all communication to happen through Reddit Chat for the mean time. This will allow us to get to chat with each other and get to know each other. This will hugely help in the growth and the development of a connection which will be crucial for things to progress. I will only permit the moving on with our communication to another platform when we are both happy to do so. Again an equal investment will be required for things to continue. If you are not able to invest in continued communication, then we will not work.

IRL ARRANGEMENT = I am only seeking a in real life arrangement only. I am happy for us to chat and get to know one another but when we are confortable and we have verified each other through photos or video. Then I would like for us to meet for a coffee and chat. I am not in a rush to meet but meeting will definately be something I will want. Again if you are not interesting in meeting in real life, then we won't work.

MY GOAL = I am looking for us to have a meaningful relationship with one another. One that has kink and fetish and fantansies. One that has trust, care, love, kindness, compassion, truth, honesty, nuture and more.

KINKS & FETISHES = I am open to many kinks and fetishes and these can be discussed in more details within our chats. I am very openminded and if there are kinks and fetishes that you have I would be open to trying them and helping you explore them. For me i want to make sure you are satisfied with me as your Dom.

MY PHYSICAL DETAILS = I am 42, 5ft 11 inches, average build, hairy chest, olive skin that is tanned, oval face, brown eyes, dark hair (Mohawk Style) salt and pepper beard or sometimes just stubble.

MY INTERNAL DETAILS = I am very chilled out person, who is pansexual, demisexual, polyamorous, vegan / vegetarian, peaceful, soft, gentle, kind, caring, loving, secure, calm, considerate, lone wolf and so much more.

MY LOCATION = I live in the South East of England / UK.

Thanks for reading. If you have any questions reach out with a chat request. I am only looking for biological females.