• Is there anyone out there who isn’t totally shallow and only interested in appearance, rather than what lies beneath?

• Anyone who is honest, monogamous and longs for a loving TPE relationship?

• Are you willing to put the work into building a secure foundation of trust for real 24/7 control and power exchange, not just ‘play’ and ‘scenes’?

• Are you driven to protect and care for your submissive? Is that as much a part of you as completely owning, dominating, possessing and using them?

• Are you looking for that elusive submissive who is utterly devoted, loyal and seeks only to learn how to serve you and give themselves completely into your control?

There must be someone out there who is as deeply driven to control and dominate as I am to submit and who needs me as much as I need them. According to my current Master, I am extremely rare in being a totally genuine submissive committed to pleasuring, obeying and being used by my Master. So, if that’s what you are looking for, read on.

I am an accomplished, independent and capable autistic woman in my prime and comfortable with myself. I am also a very experienced submissive seeking a new Master, with the support and encouragement of my current Master (who is no longer able to sustain our relationship due to age and health concerns). I have been described as a ‘hard-wired’ submissive and definitely need a similarly ‘hard-wired’ dominant. If kink is merely a prelude to sex or is ‘play’ to you, you aren’t the one for me. If you are just a user and have no idea how protect, care and ensure your submissive is emotionally, as well as physically safe, then you aren’t the one for me. SSC sadists and lovers of CP welcome.

I am challenging, but rewarding for the right dominant to control 😉

Now the bits that may (or may not) put you off:

• Looking someone aged between 40-65 who is interested in a serious D/s TPE relationship. Please don’t contact me if you are outside that age range.

• Disability friendly, body positive and looking for the same mutual respect. Larger gentlemen welcome. Neurodivergence not essential, but an advantage. If you are primarily focussed on what people look like, rather than looking for a devoted submissive heart, please look elsewhere.

• Real Life and in-person, so please don’t contact me if you aren’t in the UK

• I am monogamous and seeking a monogamous partner, so please don’t contact me if you are married, poly or otherwise committed. (YKINMKBYKIOK)

• I expect complete honesty and a willingness to discuss a potential relationship in principle and in depth prior to engaging in Ds interaction. I am looking for someone who understands the need to build trust, to create a secure foundation for a serious and lasting Ds TPE relationship. I am not looking for sex with a bit of kink, hookups, playing or ‘scenes’. What I am looking for goes way beyond sex.

Open, honest and deeply submissive. If I might just be the person for you, please contact me so that we can explore further whether we are right for each other.

I prefer to communicate by email initially, but am happy to offer a verification phone call at an early stage. I appreciate consistency, honesty and reliability. Being autistic, I am completely rubbish at casual chitchat and small talk, but if you want to jump straight into in depth discussion of Ds or any other mutual interests, then we’ll get on well! Please be a little patient. I have a life and a demanding job offline and may well not be on to ‘chat’ at the same time as you, but if you send messages that are worthy of a reply, I will do my best to respond properly, it just might take me a little while! If you have read to here, please include the word ‘zebra’ in your message.