About me:

Professional high level job, intelligent, very sapiosexual, NO DRAMA, very stable life, interesting hobbies, can occasionally travel. I write in paragraphs. I’m kind and never demanding - or demeaning.

I am committed to and enjoy daily conversation that establishes an emotional connection necessary for trust and intimacy.

I have 20 years experience as a Dom - both online and irl. I’m very aware of what my username means to women experienced in the lifestyle. I am a good Dom - because I understand the D/s relationship is a partnership - not an asshole dom who is in it just for himself. Fulfilling your desires and needs based on your kinks is my priority and a huge part of my satisfaction. I can be your pleasure Dom, your strict Dom, and everything in between.

Married, kids out of the house, wife not even remotely interested in intimacy - never really has.

I’m not looking to change my situation or yours - this needs to be a hard limit for both of us.

What I’m looking for:

Day to day communication and connection is greatly desired - but understanding that family, work, and irl needs comes first - always comes first.

I’m looking for someone in which we check each other’s boxes - a way of saying we have “chemistry”. And I will focus on a lot of up front discussions to this end - to establish trust and a sense of wellbeing for both of us.

I’m interested in someone who isn’t getting the intimacy from her spouse/partner she desires/deserves - and desperately longs for validation of her unique sexuality - high libido, submissive nature, wanting to please, longing to partner with someone for mutual satisfaction - all within boundaries and safety of course.

I’m very interested in your sexual fantasies that currently only reside secretly in your mind because your spouse/partner isn’t willing - or more likely … can’t … fulfill your sexual and erotic needs. And you’ve always wished you had someone to physically share your needs with - both online and maybe irl.

I want to partner with you in exploring those fantasies, offering my knowledge, experience, and very erotic imagination in thoughtful conversation. And more. You chose if you want to take it beyond just writing words back and forth - but know I will always want more than just words texting back and forth.

If this is something that interests you, and you want to explore further, and you’re attracted to an older man - or age doesn’t matter - please send a chat request. I very much look forward to hearing from you.