I am an experienced gentle Dom, much preferring to use positive reinforcement to modify behaviour than employ cruel or humiliating tactics. That said, pain is a instrument to use judiciously to release the endorphins that I seek in you, and that my slut enjoys.

My main kinks include (in order) 1. Language, 2. Orgasm control and conditioning, 3. Shibari, and 4. Impact play. In short I like to dress you and have you present yourself before me before slowly stripping you down and putting you over my knee to get your arse shiny and warm. Then when ready, tying you in whatever position is my want before fucking you into subspace. Or variations around that scenario when I train you.

I am 6' 4", blonde, blue-eyed male, well educated, well read who I hope is an intelligent, creative and considerate lover. As I consider my retirement I wish to share it with a companion who shares my values and tastes. Outside of training I want someone who can hold a conversation and challenge my thinking. I am a blue water sailer and I want a second who has my back, not a lickspittle that I constantly have to manage. However. sexually I want an obedient submissive little fucktoy that does what she is told without question. I lady that thinks about how she can tempt me into plastering my semen across her face with the way she dresses or behaves. That thinks about being tied over the boom and being stretched out with a good dicking.

I don't mind what you look like, what race or religion you come from, I'm looking for a compatible mind, because thats what I really enjoy fucking when I have you bound, helpless and vulnerable...