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r/BDSMPersonals40Plus

2,871 subscribers
For kinky redditors searching for kinky redditors, all 40 years old or older.

Moderators

Updated Oct 31, 2024
u/imcrashing Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/NonMonoR4R30Plus, r/NonMonoR4R40Plus, r/TeleGuardR4R, and 2 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

40 years old and older only

To post here you must be 40 and older and searching for 40 and older.

2

No selling accounts allowed

No posters involved with for-$ activities anywhere on reddit (bio, posts, comments, PMs, etc).

3

You may post once every twelve hours only

Posting frequently and attempting to bypass this rule with alt accounts will be banned.

4

Post should be correctly tagged

The flare you are using should match the content of your post. For example, couples searching for anyone should use "Mulitple for Anyone" not "Female for Anyone".

5

Respect the privacy of others

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the user banned.

6

Don't share personal information

Don't post, share, or even hint to email addresses, Kik, Snapchat, phone numbers, etc. Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments.

7

No open group chats

This is not the place to post about an open group chat, like a Discord server, Telegram group, etc. Relationships with more than two are welcome (and there are tags for it), but casting wide nets for group chats of people that barely know each other is not what this subreddit is for.

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4 hours ago
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23 hours ago
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1 day ago
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1 day ago
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3 days ago
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3 days ago
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3 days ago
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in Kansas, OK
to r/BDSMPersonals40Plus by LadderChance4295
4 days ago
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4 days ago
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M4F Male for Female
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to r/BDSMPersonals40Plus by MatureHypnoDom
4 days ago
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4 days ago
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M4F Male for Female
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to r/BDSMPersonals40Plus by ConsciousVast5725
5 days ago
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in Long
to r/BDSMPersonals40Plus by mynamegeoff22
5 days ago
43 [M4F] #Michigan Guy Here. Ladies, I Have a Question For You. Spoon to The Eye, One Has To Go! Yoga Pants, Tacos, Stanly Cups, or Target? And Since It's Fall Time, Or Pumpkin Flavored Things...
M4F Male for Female
in Michigan
to r/BDSMPersonals40Plus by YourNeedsMyWants
5 days ago
52 [M4F] #Detroit #AnnArbor - Daddy Dom looking for connections
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to r/BDSMPersonals40Plus by msyd1024
5 days ago
55 [M4F] #Syracuse - Dance a Dance of Euphoric Despair
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6 days ago
45 [M4F] UK (South East) Tied and Vibed
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6 days ago
59 [M4F] #Nebr/Online - Sub Seeking Domme
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6 days ago
43 [M4F] #Oklahoma/Arkansas - Seeking female friend who will let me see her pee, poop, and fart
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in Kansas, OK
to r/BDSMPersonals40Plus by Professor_in_search
1 week ago
47 [M4F] #Virginia #Richmond #RVA - Dom and Master looking for a bi submissive married suburban mom to train and own as a slave
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to r/BDSMPersonals40Plus by ControlU247
1 week ago
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