Seeking local, attractive , like minded, female sub who desires a deep mental and emotional connection. I am blonde, blue eyed, muscular build, southern gentleman, single dad, soft Dom.

I have a great job, stable, provider, protector, being a single parent my life is dedicated to that , so if I’m not working I’m parenting. Having limited free time for physical dating has made it difficult to make friends being new here etc. as well as usually those I have spoken to are seeking a lot more constant attention I can give through out the day , ( but make no mistake you’ll get plenty . Just may not be immediately.

I enjoy many of hobbies like paranormal, concerts, music is my go to . I enjoy the out doors , laughing , golf, bowling, pool, darts, ( it I don’t drink) I’m 420 friendly , enjoy video games when I have the time usually my alone time as of right now . Prefer no future children.

I’m traditional leaning household , as I believe that’s just how it was intended to be , and data doesn’t lie , running a home is a full time job , ask any single parent . lol At the same time , I appreciate a woman who has goals for herself, career, school, etc. I’m kind, caring , loving, I live a a quiet, peaceful life that’s a safe and fun dynamic environment.

As I don’t take a whole lot serious beyond my family and home. I have been in the lifestyle a long time ( double check the age ) been through a lot, seen a lot, done a lot some good some bad. Looking to find that deep connection in an old school dynamic, the one where some time that little look, or fling of the hair , or a certain word she says , sparks 🔥….

And the way I make a move or gesture, words of encouragement or compliment etc hopefully makes a spark as well. I have my kinks as I’m sure you do as well. I’m open to discuss but I am for sure more mental driven than anything other.

So I’m sorry ladies , I reeallllllly do enjoy and admire the female body , and probably can tell you more on how to use it . :-) so it’s ok to save a little until I get my hands on you irl. Why open a gift if you can’t play with it ?

I’m old school in many ways , and yes being from the south we are of a different mindset. I live by rules, structure, guidance , discipline . I don’t cheat , and I don’t share , it’s ok you can call me possible, stingy etc. I’m cool with it . I work hard for what I have and I plan to keep it . So what’s mine is mine . And while she laying in my arms in the we early hours having our morning coffee listening to music like Joy of my life …. It will remind her of her place she desires .

And I’ll be there to enjoy her submission for the gift it is , as her loyal, dedicated, honest, very passionate, driven partner.