Hi there!! I’m hoping to find a long term partner. Someone kinky, kind, funny, thoughtful, and adventurous.

Who I’m looking for: 38-46 (a little wiggle room, but not much), non smoker (deal breaker), local to STL city or county - city preferred, SINGLE (deal breaker), respectful of boundaries, and able to communicate clearly.

Obviously, attraction matters, but I don’t have a specific type. Good hygiene, of course. Tattoos or no tattoos, beard or no beard, hair or no hair - it really just depends on the man behind it all. If you don’t like animals, especially dogs, it will never work out though.

I’m posting here instead of a dating site because I do not see myself in a long term relationship that doesn’t include dry nursing. ANR is very important to me and I’m only looking for someone who is looking for this specific type of relationship in the long term. I would also be open to trying to induce.

I am also looking for someone who is okay with less PIV and more anal sex due to some pH balance issues. I know it isn’t for everyone and that’s okay.

Some other kinks I enjoy are very light impact play, sexual objectification, clothing control, cockwarming, restraint, and light breast bondage. While I do enjoy anal sex, I do not participate in rimming, ATM, or ATP.

I’m 43, single, with no kiddos. I live in the city. Curvy, but well proportioned. I love to run, hike, and kayak. I don’t smoke cigarettes or weed and I don’t drink. I would say that if I was going to a restaurant, I’d probably pick an Asian restaurant first. I love a good burger or steak restaurant too though. I almost forgot to mention pizza—I’m not a STL style pizza lover, but I don’t mind it. I like all pizza. Just some more than others.

I am not interested in mommy/boy dynamics. I am not looking for submissive men. I don’t want to lead a relationship. I’m happy to be a partner in life and submissive in the bedroom.

If you made it through all of that and would like to chat, please reach out! Please do - send a photo of your face, tell me approximately where you live, tell me if you have experience in ANR, what you enjoy most about it, and what your favorite nursing position is.

If you have contacted me in the past, please do not reach out again. If you live outside of STL city or county, are into age play, out of my age range preferences, smoke, are married or in a relationship (ENM or otherwise), unable to share in hosting, or can’t communicate clearly - please don’t reach out.

Please don’t - send a photo of your genitals.