Hello and thank you for your interest, below is a breakdown of what to expect from your first visit, please remember that I'll be assessing you from the moment you arrive:
A drink and a chat (optional) - a little time to settle nerves, reconfirm limits, safewords, and any medical info i need to consider, before we begin.
Rules and etiquette - this will be your basic orientation, i will explain the simple rules i expect you to follow during your visit, how you should behave, etc. nothing complicated, but a good basis to build from should you decide to enter into my service.
Physical assessment - more than just stripping you, this step will be slow, and methodical, and include questions about your clothing choices, physical attributes, sensitive spots and how you do, and dont, like to be touched and played with.
Obedience assessment - your service will require you to follow rules and commands, during this section i will assess your current ability to do so, as well as your attitude, as with everything assessed, i dont expect perfection, only that you try your best at all times, and demonstrate your willingness to learn and improve.
Positions and restrictions - an extension of the above, during your service you will be required to learn and assume certain positions, some practical, others decorative, and during this time i will teach you the core positions, and assess your ability to move in and out of them on command. I will mention here that while i find bondage and restraints fun, and decorative, i believe once properly trained, a good slave shouldn't need more than a command to restrain them.
Current skills assessment - this will be your opportunity to demonstrate your current skill level, and as before, i don't expect perfection, just your best effort, so i can ascertain where we're starting from, so while yes, you should bring your A game, I'm more interesting in seeing your potential, than a flawless performance.
Wild cards - during the above assessments a number of questions, queries, and other tests might come to mind that are specific to you, this is when I'll work through them.
Free form use - we have now completed the formal assessment, and we'll move into bulk of our time together, your assessment will continue throughout, but it's during this time you'll begin to experience life in the service of another, both while actively in use, when following commands, and when awaiting use.
This is what i offer you, it can be tailored to your limits, for visits of a few hours, or a few days, as a one off taster session, or more ideally, an assessment for regular service.
I have found my approach is better suited to a mature applicant, but I'm happy to hear from younger women who believe they have the temperament for a carefully paced assessment and training programme. With this in mind, i will consider women of all ages, but have no upper age limit, as long as you're prepared to complete the assessment, and serve.
I'm also aware that some who find their interest peaked by the above might not be single, to those in this situation, I can offer complete discretion, so whether your significant other recognises your needs and gives there blessings, or needs to remain blissfully unaware, you're welcome, just please be honest when you contact me.
And with that, if you're interested in exploring your submission with an experienced, methodical, nurturing gentleman, please send me a chat, or message, telling me a little about yourself, and I'll be in touch.
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