Good evening,
As I have posted in the post, I am looking for my new best friend, my partner in crime, that is also a Domme.
I am a Switch leaning Sub, that can Dom for special occasions, if predetermined. I wish I was more of a Dom, but the natural energy and thought process is swinging on the Sub side of the "Kink Force". I apologize to all the ladies that are looking for a Dom more than that small time frame. I promise he is out there, waiting for you. Don't lose hope.
I fall under "service submission" for my sub side. I get the most fulfillment out of performing service based tasks for my partner. My main goal is to make your life easier, less stressful, and free up your time so you can relax. The world is tough, wouldn't it be nice to have someone helping you out? Asking for me.
I also adore bondage for those more "behind bedroom door" times. However, one cannot be in bondage 24/7, right? There has to be at least a perception of vanilla in the relationship somewhere. Don't want to scare off the neighbors.
I have other kinks such as: (to name a few):
Service Submission
Bondage
Chastity
Tease and denial
Orgasm control
Facesitting
Distraction play
Pegging
My limits are: (to name a few that I know)
Blood
Scat/Pee
Illegal activity/actions
Diapers
Permanent marks
I am still pretty new to this lifestyle. I have identified as kinky for a big part of my life, application is another story. I am willing to learn, service, and obey. However, it will take time for me to become the sub you always wanted/needed.
When kinky fun isn't in play (no pun intended), I am just a average, mild manner "Clark Kent" of sorts. I have a steady job that is physically demanding, I have a small social circle of friends, I workout/learn at a marital arts gym, day hike/camp, and have a few other smaller "nerdy" like hobbies (movies/tv show/ and comic books).
As I hinted above, my job is physical. I am a stocky, built like a bear framed guy. I am not small, nor shredded. I do have a beard most of the year and i have tattoos. I also have children from a previous marriage that ended a few years ago. I get them every other weekend.
I am looking for my one, my partner in crime, that understand living life, and that there is a time and place for Kink. I want to feel an explosion of pure joy and excitement when she texts me and/or walks in the same room as me. And i want her to feel that same feeling towards me. I am not a kink dispenser and my future partner won't be mine either. We will have good days and bad, just know that I will be there to comfort you and be ready to serve so that your day will be a little brighter.
As I have mentioned in previous posts, I have shared my BDSM test results on my profile page. Please check it out. It will help a lot. It was fun filling it out with my close friends, whom also did the test too. There was lots of laughter and "oh my" moments, in case you were wondering.
Thank you for reading all of this. I did my best to describe the essences of the person I am and want to grow and develop (for that weak areas) to be for my partner in crime. I am not that picky, nor snobby. I am respectful and demonstrate class the best I can to those that reach out. I ask that you do that same if you decide to chat with me.
If you do decide to reach out to initiate a conversation, please tell me your favorite "Underworld" movie and why?
If you have any questions, big or small, please feel free to ask me. I would like to clarify any confusion.
Thanks again.
Jason
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